supersub Posted March 31, 2010 Posted March 31, 2010 Well I had been doing well, or so I thought, but today I feel so empty. Its been 3 months since I mutually split with my GF because we had not been getting along. Nearly 9 wks no contact, and I'm dying today. I have no urge to contact. But I do feel like a piece of me is missing. I always try to stay busy, but even when I do. Its not far from my mind. I've reconnected with friends, but something about all this just feels wrong. I know it will pass, but I feel like it hits you right out of the blue sometimes. I guess I'm wondering if she has moved on, maybe that's where this feeling is coming from. Any words of encouragement would be great guys.
cdt76 Posted March 31, 2010 Posted March 31, 2010 Yesterday was the same way for me. Out of the blue, just missed her, wanted her, loved her again. I don't know why. I don't know where the feelings came from and I don't know why it hit me so hard. All I can say is that you can make it through today. You can do it. It's hard and it sucks and the whole inside you needs time to heal. Sometimes we don't heal as quickly we want to. You can't know if she has moved on but you know she hasn't contacted you and she hasn't tried to win you back. You have to think like it's over and work on yourself. I know I'm not ready to move on to another woman, even after all this time, but I know that today is better then yesterday. Stay strong and just make it through the day.
Author supersub Posted March 31, 2010 Author Posted March 31, 2010 Yesterday was the same way for me. Out of the blue, just missed her, wanted her, loved her again. I don't know why. I don't know where the feelings came from and I don't know why it hit me so hard. All I can say is that you can make it through today. You can do it. It's hard and it sucks and the whole inside you needs time to heal. Sometimes we don't heal as quickly we want to. You can't know if she has moved on but you know she hasn't contacted you and she hasn't tried to win you back. You have to think like it's over and work on yourself. I know I'm not ready to move on to another woman, even after all this time, but I know that today is better then yesterday. Stay strong and just make it through the day. Thanks cdt for responding. I'm sorry you had a bad day yesterday, and thanks for the encouragement. I was out with some friends last night and I think that was where it started to hit me. You really can be lonely in a crowded room. We are all trying, we are all out there making new avenues for ourselves, but deep down do we really know what we are doing? I know my ex has been making new friends etc. Does she feel like I do? I will probably never know. Its just this void. You know? We did so much together, and suddenly its desecrated to some distant memory. Its almost like it never even happened. Like it was just some dream. I woke up sweating this morning. It was terrible. This is true heartbreak. It must be.
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