PaperReflections Posted March 31, 2010 Posted March 31, 2010 (edited) I am talking about "Pickup" as in a girl. I live in Raleigh, NC. I have just learned about this concept. And, I was wondering if anyone knew much about it. I am 21, virgin, no luck... just refer to other post.. more about me. I have decided "pickup" bars might be more socially accepted than escorts. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t225816/ 1) Where are these cute girls at? 2) How do I find the one who is not do "it" as a full time job? 3) How do I introduce myself? ex. Last week, I went to a bar and spent $100 on just drinks, and they were running $2 shots and beer spacial. And, got home empty handed without even a number. So, do I go with: A) "Hey baby, would you like to touch ma pen**? B) "Would you like to come home with me, and meet my mom? C) "Here have a drink, another, another.... Now, do you want to touch my pen**? 4) I have researched that these "pickup" girls are in it for the $. Is it ok to do something special? Ex. Scented candles, get her a gift (ex. Designer pearls or other), flower petals on the bed, bring a chocolate fountain to my room, or whatever else. 5) I am being forced by my parents to live in a dorm. Should I invite her back to my dorm? Or, is doing this at a hotel which is more endearing? 6) People like to eat. So, should I cater or cook something for her? 7) Paying before or after? Which is more of a good etiquette? 8) Is it possible to get into a relationship with this individual? -I have way too many question, I am just way too inquisitive. It would be awesome if someone can help me with this stuff. Edited March 31, 2010 by PaperReflections
SilkRose Posted March 31, 2010 Posted March 31, 2010 I am talking about "Pickup" as in a girl. I live in Raleigh, NC. I have just learned about this concept. And, I was wondering if anyone knew much about it. I am 21, virgin, no luck... just refer to other post.. more about me. I have decided "pickup" bars might be more socially accepted than escorts. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t225816/ 1) Where are these cute girls at? 2) How do I find the one who is not do "it" as a full time job? 3) How do I introduce myself? ex. Last week, I went to a bar and spent $100 on just drinks, and they were running $2 shots and beer spacial. And, got home empty handed without even a number. So, do I go with: A) "Hey baby, would you like to touch ma pen**? B) "Would you like to come home with me, and meet my mom? C) "Here have a drink, another, another.... Now, do you want to touch my pen**? 4) I have researched that these "pickup" girls are in it for the $. Is it ok to do something special? Ex. Scented candles, get her a gift (ex. Designer pearls or other), flower petals on the bed, bring a chocolate fountain to my room, or whatever else. 5) I am being forced by my parents to live in a dorm. Should I invite her back to my dorm? Or, is doing this at a hotel which is more endearing? 6) People like to eat. So, should I cater or cook something for her? 7) Paying before or after? Which is more of a good etiquette? 8) Is it possible to get into a relationship with this individual? -I have way too many question, I am just way too inquisitive. It would be awesome if someone can help me with this stuff. Sounds like to want to meet a woman who you can have a romantic relationship with and you;re trying to go about it by finding a 'part-time' prostitute...doesn't make much sense. And you deserve so much better.
LucreziaBorgia Posted March 31, 2010 Posted March 31, 2010 I lived in Raleigh, and went to school there at NCSU and I don't recall seeing the types of bars you are talking about. There are a few titty bars there where you may be able to find someone who also escorts, but not any pickup clubs or anything like that. I'm assuming you go to NCSU? Would you consider a fraternity? I was a little sister at one of those and the parties/socials/mixers with the sororities and campus girls were endless. I didn't have a single brother in the fraternity who was not able to hook up with a girl at some time or other and this was a fraternity known for 'socially awkward geeks'! If that isn't your cup of tea you could always join one of the UAB committees - I was with the Entertainment Committee, and got to meet lots of fairly famous people and meet some interesting guys along the way. There are girls in those committees that you might have stuff in common with. The key is finding something you have in common, an activity you like to do and get to know someone that way. You don't need hookers taking all your money. There are lots of people there on campus - you just need to be looking at the right ones.
Author PaperReflections Posted April 3, 2010 Author Posted April 3, 2010 (edited) SilkRose, you are right. I might be going about it the wrong way, and I just can't follow though with the plan anyway. But, what is the right way? LucreziaBorgia, Go Wolfpack!!! I don't feel like revealing my identity; there are a lot of unique things about me, and details would make it so easy. UAB, sounds fun. I will join it. Thanks. As for Greek, I founded of a fraternity. No, luck with the sorority girls. I have seen some of the most beautiful and funny girls at these social functions with sororities. Sometimes, I feel like my heart will fallout and walk off on its own. Lol Too bad the girls don't know, and I won't tell. I have been to lots of places with lots of girls. No luck. Maybe, my goal should not even be to get laid, but to get to first base? What is the methodology to get to french kissing? What is the best was to learn the french kiss to avoid messing it up? Edited April 3, 2010 by PaperReflections
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