The Art of Rehab Posted March 31, 2010 Posted March 31, 2010 It was nothing big, she was watching Night at the Museum and texted me a line that had us cracking up when we saw it together back in the day. I haven't talked to her in months, what's this all about? Just weird that she would go from not talking to me to texting me something so miniscule. Throws me off. I still think about her, and I want another chance with her. I don't know how to read this, it just seems weird that out of the blue... I decided to test the waters just a tad by texting her yesterday with a similar text, just a harmless quote from Arrested Development, she responded and laughed. This is small, but with our situation, big improvements. Am I reading into this too much, hoping it's a good sign? Or are things actually looking good between us? I was thinking about waiting a few weeks then asking her out to grab some water ice or something. Nothing major.
2yearsNC Posted March 31, 2010 Posted March 31, 2010 (edited) bad move texting back. if she left you, she knows what you want. don't settle for breadcrumbs now your her EX boyfriend whom is still there as opposed to "i wonder what my ex is doing" you just went down a notch. now its "i left him but he's so nice, he responded to me" then she goes and puts another cock in her mouth now she can do as she pleases knowing she can get you whenever she wants you. out of respect she should not contact you, weird my ex hasn't contacted me in 2 years. i sort of wish i had that text you just had so i could reply back with the phrase "the whore is still alive :-), how have you been?" then again maybe your situation is different. Edited March 31, 2010 by 2yearsNC
kyta Posted March 31, 2010 Posted March 31, 2010 Bad bad move txin back, mine tx me months ago just after breaking up, i was wow, 3 months on we tx everyday, she phones me most days, last wk she tells me she loves me still, cpl days later tell me she misses me, cpl day later tells me shge want us, yet we still not back on, 3 months of heart ach for nothing more than breadcrumbs, it aint worth the pain i promise u, im living proof, i just wish i could tell mine feck off, but im week, stupid, lonely and clinging on to hope while i boost her ego Doh!!!!!!!!!
Author The Art of Rehab Posted March 31, 2010 Author Posted March 31, 2010 I broke up with her, she didn't break up with me.
Rearden Metal Posted March 31, 2010 Posted March 31, 2010 I broke up with her, she didn't break up with me. And the Crowd goes.... Quiet. Dude, nobody on LS is the dumper. So it's up to you to write the book
selena_cat Posted March 31, 2010 Posted March 31, 2010 bad move texting back. if she left you, she knows what you want. don't settle for breadcrumbs now your her EX boyfriend whom is still there as opposed to "i wonder what my ex is doing" you just went down a notch. now its "i left him but he's so nice, he responded to me" then she goes and puts another cock in her mouth now she can do as she pleases knowing she can get you whenever she wants you. out of respect she should not contact you, weird my ex hasn't contacted me in 2 years. i sort of wish i had that text you just had so i could reply back with the phrase "the whore is still alive :-), how have you been?" then again maybe your situation is different. That is the most hilarious responmd i ever read, mostly true. Just like my ex, he emails and put his new gf's stankin cat in his mouth. Dont beat your self up by txting her,your just being courteous but dont make it a habit,speaking from experience fromt he Breadcrumb taking queen. Theres a poster name Limbo i think thts his name, we all should learn from him,his ex texts,emails,and everything,and he still ignores her,so she keeps pursuing him,even changing her e-mail just to get a hold of him! Mind you this guy is still in love with her,why oh why cant we be all lovelorn folks that strong..takes time.
spriggig Posted April 2, 2010 Posted April 2, 2010 I broke up with her, she didn't break up with me. Wow. Um. OK. If you want her back she's yours? Just make sure you want her back and that you both start honest work immediately on whatever broke you guys up in the first place.
Author The Art of Rehab Posted April 4, 2010 Author Posted April 4, 2010 I'm kind of curious about hearing your dumper story...please share. Did you break up with her because she cheated on you? Or was it because you weren't feeling it anymore? And when did you decided that you wanted her back? I have depression/anxiety and I wasn't aware of it while I was dating her. It was untreated and thus affected my mood and feelings. I never wanted to do anything, and we started fighting over it, and I left. When I finally got my **** together and asked her back, she was too hurt to, she shot me down. It wasn't like anyone cheated or did anything horrible. So even though I did the dumping, I'm still at a disadvantage. I haven't heard from her in a little over a week until this morning when she texted me telling me that Aladdin was on TV. Which is weird, because it's not like Aladdin was a big part of our relationship or anything, you know how couples have favorite movies or things. I see it as an excuse to contact me, I didn't answer this one, and I don't plan to. We shall see if she follows up and makes an effort to try to contact me again after not getting a response from me.
Lishy Posted April 4, 2010 Posted April 4, 2010 I am pleased to know that Aladdin was not a big part of your relationship haha Ok she is reaching out here... think about what you really want and go for it
Author The Art of Rehab Posted April 4, 2010 Author Posted April 4, 2010 I am pleased to know that Aladdin was not a big part of your relationship haha Ok she is reaching out here... think about what you really want and go for it I'm thinking of waiting a couple of weeks then asking her out for some water ice. There's a Rita's right around the corner from her, and it's a pretty innocent request. Could be nice grounds to start talking again.
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