bluz73 Posted March 30, 2010 Posted March 30, 2010 Not that i should be dwelling on this but I have come to the conclusion that I no longer had any control and that is why it hurt me so badly when 3 days after he told me he met someone else HE texted me to tell me"Just so you know Im changing my number now and Im so sorry" Okay I was a good woman your only leaving me cause you met an 18 year old that you can be childish and immature with and that you dont have to be responsible. I didnt hurt you.. So when he done this I was devastated cause I should have changed my number not him..He acted like I done something wrong..But he assured me thru emails that he didnt hate me and he wanted me to move on and be happy and he is confused and needed space..never did figure out why he did it..I am assuming so he didnt have to answer my questions. SO my theory is he had to cut me off to get over me and start something new with her and having me in the midst would confuse him more. But he didnt care enough to realize he burned a bridge that cant ever be rebuilt by doing so.. If anyone had similar expieriences or knows the rational reason for this please reply thanks...Im coming to the final stages of moving on and it helps to hear from you all!
DramaFree Posted March 31, 2010 Posted March 31, 2010 you might google narcissist or NPD sounds a little bit like crazy making. People with this disorder have a way of flipping it.
Author bluz73 Posted March 31, 2010 Author Posted March 31, 2010 you might google narcissist or NPD sounds a little bit like crazy making. People with this disorder have a way of flipping it. Are you saying me or him narcassitc?
Lost Fish Posted March 31, 2010 Posted March 31, 2010 Are you saying me or him narcassitc? Drama was referring to him bluz. I'm sorry for your pain. Keep your chin up. Take the space and focus on yourself. The more distance you gain the more you will begin to see how self-centered he is. hugz
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