Lucky555 Posted March 30, 2010 Posted March 30, 2010 So the guy i was getting over..contacted me and started a flirty and casual conversation. I don't understand. He wanted to try again when we last talked about 11 days ago. He just contacted me yesterday. why can't he just stay out my life if he is not interested? To wait over a week to even talk to me is pretty long. I have not contacted him because he is the one who became too busy for me and thats not a relationship (which is what i want). I'm not holding my breath as i have already gone on a date since we were not together and I am going to continue to see other guys. So why did he contact me? He didn't set up a date or plans. I just think it was odd. Maybe he just wanted an ego boost. I am just so done with games and stupid stuff.
Kiley12 Posted March 30, 2010 Posted March 30, 2010 So the guy i was getting over..contacted me and started a flirty and casual conversation. I don't understand. He wanted to try again when we last talked about 11 days ago. He just contacted me yesterday. why can't he just stay out my life if he is not interested? To wait over a week to even talk to me is pretty long. I have not contacted him because he is the one who became too busy for me and thats not a relationship (which is what i want). I'm not holding my breath as i have already gone on a date since we were not together and I am going to continue to see other guys. So why did he contact me? He didn't set up a date or plans. I just think it was odd. Maybe he just wanted an ego boost. I am just so done with games and stupid stuff. OP, glad you did not contact him and cut it off when he realized he was too busy for you. My thoughts are that he's contacting you to see if he can still get you and keep you around on a lonely night. Keep doing what you're doing and don't respond to him.
tincanman99 Posted March 30, 2010 Posted March 30, 2010 Dont fall for it. No guy that is into you is going to do this. Believe me when I say this. NOBODY IS THAT BUSY. If he is truly into you he will do whatever he has to do to see you and that includes re-arranging his life around you.
Author Lucky555 Posted March 30, 2010 Author Posted March 30, 2010 I agree with you both. I confronted him about being too busy for me and his interest last time. He really insisted he was too busy. I am not stupid and I didn't believe him anyways. he actually insisted that it was not another person he was interested in..however good ol' facebook really showed me what it was.....a girl. I think he needs to figure himself out and im not waiting around for that I just don't want him in and out of my life. ugh.......maybe ignoring him will be best.
Kiley12 Posted March 30, 2010 Posted March 30, 2010 I agree with you both. I confronted him about being too busy for me and his interest last time. He really insisted he was too busy. I am not stupid and I didn't believe him anyways. he actually insisted that it was not another person he was interested in..however good ol' facebook really showed me what it was.....a girl. I think he needs to figure himself out and im not waiting around for that I just don't want him in and out of my life. ugh.......maybe ignoring him will be best. Good! You have the right attitude about it Ignore until he goes away.
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