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Has anybody, after a couple months after the break up, just straight up told their ex that they miss them? If so, what did they say and how did things turn out?

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I think that with the people who it did work out aren't hanging around on LS any more.. I only see people who allways tell you to go NC and forget about your ex, right?

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i agree forget about them, im still in contact with mine and nothing but pain comes from it.

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I think that with the people who it did work out aren't hanging around on LS any more.. I only see people who allways tell you to go NC and forget about your ex, right?

 

Not neccesrily true. There just has to be a certain way to go about working things out otherwise the same pattern will happen over and over again. I've had second chances with women for the right reasons and the wrong reasons. I'm here because I don't want people to go through anymore pain than they need to. You have to respect yourself before you can be with anyone else.

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Has anybody, after a couple months after the break up, just straight up told their ex that they miss them? If so, what did they say and how did things turn out?

 

My ex says this to me all the time. It makes me really pissed off. It makes me want to say:

 

"Really? You miss me? Then why the hell are we even in this situation? Man up and deal with the consequences. You made your bed. Lie in it."

 

Instead I just say "heh, uh. Yeah."

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I think that with the people who it did work out aren't hanging around on LS any more.. I only see people who allways tell you to go NC and forget about your ex, right?

 

Or they have to come BACK to LS because they are (or I am) so dumb they are like a dog going back to eat it's vomit and they don't realize that when something ends, it ends for a reason, and that reason often remains, even if you get back together.

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I did this, texted my ex boyfriend one day out of the blue and told him straight up I missed him and still loved him. He told me the same thing and yet we aren't together, hmm... The problem was he couldn't make up his mind about whether or not to be with me or to keep trying to find someone else who would make him as happy as I did or be there for him like I always was. So in the end I made his mind up for him when I moved on once and for all.

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