gtrplayer Posted March 30, 2010 Posted March 30, 2010 OK...so we have moved to the NC point now. We have made the decision to NOT go to the event described previously. ME being week put the offer out there, but she has now fully declined of which to me is a breath of relaxation. ANd now we are NC. I'm so excited as I now have my life back... looking forward to now moving on and very excited to do things for me!!! I'm filled with this excitement... BUT, on the other hand, I'm sad and I just feel terrible that I'm doing this to her... I know she's hurting, she's upset, mad, very sad, not eating, crying... it just blows that I know that I have made her like this and THAT is the hard part... It's like I'm all excited for me, but can't fully enjoy it yet until I get over being sad for her and worrying about how she is etc... What do I do with all that?
nmillar87 Posted April 1, 2010 Posted April 1, 2010 At the end of the day its nice you still care for her, but you have to focus on yourself, she is not your responsibility and you hanging around to comfort her will only make things worse
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