JP8294 Posted March 30, 2010 Posted March 30, 2010 Ok, Currently i like 2 girls. Both of them i have the same amount of feelings for. I told both of them i like them a while back and lost contact with one til about a month ago and the other one ive been talking with since July 09. My big issue is that they like other people and need advice to help sway one my way bc there old boyfriends or the persons they like are ass holes and its putting me in a whole because in love stuck and need extra help. Can i get some advice please?
Rearden Metal Posted March 30, 2010 Posted March 30, 2010 I knew this kid in HS who took his penis out and DENTED a car hood with it. True story. I think if you do this, you'll have a decent shot at getting one of them back.
marsle85 Posted March 30, 2010 Posted March 30, 2010 I knew this kid in HS who took his penis out and DENTED a car hood with it. True story. I think if you do this, you'll have a decent shot at getting one of them back. Hahahhahahahhahahha. I don't think that's good advice at all! Shame on you.
Rearden Metal Posted March 30, 2010 Posted March 30, 2010 Hahahhahahahhahahha. I don't think that's good advice at all! Shame on you. Listen, it's fantastic advice. At the very least, someone would witness it, and 16 years later they'd post it on a forum. That kind of thing never dies.
deux ex machina Posted March 30, 2010 Posted March 30, 2010 Ok, Currently i like 2 girls. Both of them i have the same amount of feelings for. I told both of them i like them a while back and lost contact with one til about a month ago and the other one ive been talking with since July 09. My big issue is that they like other people and need advice to help sway one my way bc there old boyfriends or the persons they like are ass holes and its putting me in a whole because in love stuck and need extra help. Can i get some advice please? Tell both of them the bold part. Problem solved.
troggleputty Posted March 30, 2010 Posted March 30, 2010 Ok, Currently i like 2 girls. Both of them i have the same amount of feelings for. I told both of them i like them a while back and lost contact with one til about a month ago and the other one ive been talking with since July 09. My big issue is that they like other people and need advice to help sway one my way bc there old boyfriends or the persons they like are ass holes and its putting me in a whole because in love stuck and need extra help. Can i get some advice please? Yes, usually, the girl with the dark hair is more of the b*itchy spoiled type, but seems more exciting sexually; the blonde one is like the boring girl next door doormat type; but for all intents and purposes, they're interchangeable with one another.
cooldudeinberlin Posted March 30, 2010 Posted March 30, 2010 Get rid of them both and move on... way too many other options out there... besides, who wants to compete for a woman's attention? That should never be done in my opinion. There are a more interesting ladies out there than just these two... in fact, millions. Get busy.
boogieboy Posted March 30, 2010 Posted March 30, 2010 Get rid of them both and move on... way too many other options out there... besides, who wants to compete for a woman's attention? That should never be done in my opinion. There are a more interesting ladies out there than just these two... in fact, millions. Get busy. Yep, those guys keep getting their attention because they show the girls that they dont need them. You need to do that too.
phineas Posted March 30, 2010 Posted March 30, 2010 what kind of activities do you do with them? Dinner? Movies? Who pays? If you are psudo-dateing them. stop. Do you think the guys their chaseing do that? Nope. Simply tell them you want to date them & if they don't feel the same you (as their friend) can accept that & won't stop talking to them. But also tell them you have no interest in putting yourself in date like situations with them (psudo-dateing) & they as your friends need to accept that. I've instituted this philosophy recently & I have to say my life is way less complicated when it comes to the women I know.
ADF Posted March 30, 2010 Posted March 30, 2010 Sorry, but these women don't owe it to you to be interested in you just because you think you're a nicer guy these these other guys they like. Make a choice. Ask one of them out.
Jersey Shortie Posted March 30, 2010 Posted March 30, 2010 Shocking but true, I agree with ADF. I will add that you said you were talking to one girl since July '09 but yet haven't made a move. Perhaps the girl you met more recently is the one you are more interested in. Perhaps only though.
troggleputty Posted March 30, 2010 Posted March 30, 2010 ...let me just add that instead of Betty or Veronica you should try dating Midge or Josie.
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