NostraHistoria1 Posted March 30, 2010 Posted March 30, 2010 So, my doctor, a resident (probably, lol, sorry I do not know), likes me. She has gotten out of her way to get my attention. I do not even know her name. If I did, I would check her on Facebook. She introduced herself, but my dumba@@ did not pay attention. I went for a clinic visit last week and she popped out of nowhere. She put her arms under her armpits in frustration or anger. She is a lot more experienced than me. If I would be doing anything with her, it would just be fun and I would be joking around with her. I think shewould want something else and I do not want to break up with anyone. I am 27 and she is probably a little older than me. To me, my age now is all about getting a wife. So, what should I do? I do not want to take her out if I would just have to break up with her at the end of summer before school starts. I have thought about what I would tell her the next time just to make up for ignoring her. Here are the options. Which is the best? 1. You still want me or did you find another guy with X disease and an ostomy? 2. So, you have examined me. When can I examine you? 3. I would have checked you on Facebook, but there is no internet at the nursing home... Whenever I go to the hospital, there is usually some nurse or doctor who wants me. I am healthy now. Can you give me a prescription for you to like me now? 5. I wanted to ask you out last time because it looks like you wanted a XXX to down, but since my mom was there, I could not. What do I do with this chick? I could have some fun with her...but then I would have to find some way to dump her. What do I do?
Author NostraHistoria1 Posted March 30, 2010 Author Posted March 30, 2010 Wow. I just read my thread all the way through, and I seem like a undergrad or HSer.
JohnnyBlaze Posted March 30, 2010 Posted March 30, 2010 Okay, you're jumping around, here. First of all, take a long, deep breath and slowly exhale. Then take a few more. Next, find out her name. Nurses are good for this, plus they're likely to drop hints to the doc that you were asking about her. The grape vine works quickly, so you can make it work in your favour! Catchy lines probably won't do much good. She's doing her residency, which means she's been a med student for a few years now and was talking about going into med for a few years prior to that. Chances are good that she's heard 98% of all possible variations of "let's play doctor" already. As to her being episode of being frustrated or angry, how does that relate to you? Did you cause it? If not, forget about it - it's not worth anything. And how do you know what she wants? You're worried about you two not wanting the same thing and how you'd break up with her when you don't even know her name yet! You're putting the cart before the horse, here. One step at a time, okay? Another thing that may impede your progress is many hospitals (and some States, and the AMA as well, I think,) have rules about doctors not seeing their patients. So before anything can happen, you may have to either change doctors or wait until her residency ends. No med student is going to take a risk like that. She's worked too hard to get this far. So... Find out her name.Lose the corny lines.Don't assume to know what she wants.Just talk to her.If things happen. *IF* it does - find another doctor. But deal with steps 1-4 first!
boogieboy Posted March 30, 2010 Posted March 30, 2010 If you want to just sleep with her and not have a relationship, dont worry about it. You will get your opportunity to tell her that...she will ask.
Author NostraHistoria1 Posted March 30, 2010 Author Posted March 30, 2010 Johnny Blaze, Wow. Are you a counselor in real life? I am impressed. Ok. She wants me because she keeps smiling at me and when she was come and see my in the hospital, she would sort of hide behind the door and stick her head out multiple times...even if she had entered the room. Girls know these types of goofy things they do to get a guy's attention. Side note, some nurse who wanted me took my blood sugar count twice, which she never did before, and she also moved the curtains that separate my bed from the one next to me so that I could not see the window...at night. Anyway, those lines I wrote were serious. If I am doing anything with her, I am going to laughing and LOLing with her online maybe 75% of the time. She is not hot or anything, but she is adorable. If I only had her name, I could have checked her out on Facebook. Not sure which ethnicity she is or if she is religious, but it is a big issue. I ethnicity X and religion X. I will only marry someone with the same ethnicity and religion. I am almost 100% sure she is neither of mine. I do not want to go out with here, fall in love with her, and then dump her a@@ like a jerk before I go to school. I live on principles and I will compromise unless something truly cataclysmic happens. What do I do? There was a girl from NY who said something in this thread. What do I say to her? 1. "I am really not good at talking. Let me just lock this door and press you up against this wall?" 2. "I know you want me, and I want you, so just kiss me and let the rest fall in place." 3. "You said you did not care if I drink the prep liquids before the scan. You were wrong. I have to discipline you now. Get close to me." 4. "The first time I saw you, I was wondering what you were doing here. I have not seen any decent doctors here." I need a chick to help me out her with advice.
boogieboy Posted March 30, 2010 Posted March 30, 2010 You dont do anything. Just let her flirt, and go find a woman that you want to keep.
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