WolfGirl21 Posted March 29, 2010 Posted March 29, 2010 I have a bit of a dilemma: I have this guy friend (who i've liked a few times in the past, but each time he rejected me, mainly cuz he had a gf already) and i just split from my bf & now me & my guy friend have been talking a lot & my feelings for him have come back (also, we've hung out twice). He's told me he "likes me" & stuff, but i dont know how meaningful it is...after all, he does have a gf (whose in her senior year of high school, we graduated summer '09). But the second time we hung out we kissed a few times, but i stopped it before it escaladed to something more. Now, he wants to have sex once with me, & im having mixed feelings...part of me is saying yes, go for it. but the other part is saying dont do it, he has a gf & just wants to do it once (plus im afraid of how ill be after, since i really like him)..... anyone have any advice on what i should do? im stuck in a rut
TouchedByViolet Posted March 30, 2010 Posted March 30, 2010 What I like about these posts is there are so many paths you can take and they will all most surely NOT lead to a relationship with this guy. So lets examine the options. 1- Sleep with the guy who already has a gf and you yourself said "he wants to have sex once with me". Well damn, I would say he wants his cake and to eat it to. No chance of a relationship here. 2- You can wait for him to become single. Lots of emotional struggles here and chances are you will fail and just sleep with him. Still no relationship here. 3- Find someone else. There are so many single guys out there who are not dbags. Maybe try having a relationship with one of them.
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