johnny12 Posted March 29, 2010 Posted March 29, 2010 I found out that when my girlfriend was away she was drunk and kissed some random bloke who came on to her - obviously I am very upset and hurt - however I kind of did the same thing , I did not tell her obviuosly as it meant nothing to me , i didnt want to ruin things and I guess that is exactly what she has done ! - I still however feel terrible that she kissed some one and i can't shake the bad feeling .... she feels terrible ... I have said to her that i forgive her and will work through it ! Am I a huge hypocrite or what?
linwood Posted March 29, 2010 Posted March 29, 2010 No you`re fine. You`ll get over your GF`s kiss in time just keep reminding yourself you did it too. It`ll pass.
Rearden Metal Posted March 29, 2010 Posted March 29, 2010 I suggest you do a better job sexing her than you did kissing her!
Dexter Morgan Posted March 29, 2010 Posted March 29, 2010 I found out that when my girlfriend was away she was drunk and kissed some random bloke who came on to her - obviously I am very upset and hurt - however I kind of did the same thing then you really can't be all that mad at her. I did not tell her obviuosly as it meant nothing to me no, you didn't tell her because you don't respect her enought to tell her the truth. so let me guess, you are going to get down on her over what she did and let her think that she is the only cheater in this relationship then, right? i didnt want to ruin things and I guess that is exactly what she has done ! - I still however feel terrible that she kissed some one and i can't shake the bad feeling .... she feels terrible terrible enought to not party without you and get drunk around a bunch of other guys? I bet not. Am I a huge hypocrite or what? yes. but again, you are going to let her think she is the only cheater in this relationship. not really a level playing field. 1
lordWilhelm Posted March 29, 2010 Posted March 29, 2010 I think you guys have some underlying issues that you need to resolve... and you both did it, so I reckon it's pretty serious. At least she told you, maybe you should do the same and have a heart-to-heart with her about what happened.
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