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How do you say no to good sex?


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Or do you say no to good sex?

I am over my ex in every way except sexually

and I am trying to let go because I always get hurt when I try to have any kind of relationship with him... even the friend's with benefits type

He has been texting and he wants me to come over

I know what that means

I want to... BUT

It is not going to make me happy aside from the instant gratification

How do you know what the right thing is???

Especially if your lonely

All the wrong men are in my life

One that's nice etc but I'm not attracted to

and one that's not so nice but I'm extremely attracted to

what do I do?

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Confused, this is the big question for me as well. My ex Affair partner and I have awesome sex, but she's married, and I can't do this anymore. The only thing I can tell you is to tough it out, and look for someone new, who is sexually exciting without the drawbacks. Good Luck

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Confused, this is the big question for me as well. My ex Affair partner and I have awesome sex, but she's married, and I can't do this anymore. The only thing I can tell you is to tough it out, and look for someone new, who is sexually exciting without the drawbacks. Good Luck

Thanks I really want to tough it out this time

I have been doing okay so far... I haven't gone over there

I'm worried about those moments of extreme weakness (the lows) where I get overtaken by my hormones and life feels mundane and I need excitement so I make the wrong choices because I am tired of making the right choices

Sometimes no contact and waiting it out or toughing it out is boring...

Does that make sense?

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