gdap Posted March 29, 2010 Posted March 29, 2010 Over the last few weeks and months, I've meet a few girls who I'm interested in. I've talked with them, and sometimes exchanged numbers. But then they introduce me to their friends. Sometimes, I find myself more interested in their friends than I am them. What do I do in this case? I don't really know what to do. I'd feel bad if I suddenly started pursuing another girl. And I imagine this might cause difficulties if they're close friends. So often, I just move on (even from the first girl). Does anyone have any advice on what to do in this situation?
Johnny M Posted March 29, 2010 Posted March 29, 2010 What do I do in this case? I don't really know what to do. I'd feel bad if I suddenly started pursuing another girl. And I imagine this might cause difficulties if they're close friends. So often, I just move on (even from the first girl). Make it clear that you're only interested in being friends with the girl you met initially, and then go for one of her girlfriends. Nothing wrong with that.
boogieboy Posted March 29, 2010 Posted March 29, 2010 When you talk to the girl A, do/say something to turn her off, and then talk to girl B before the girl A tells her how you turned her off. Girl A wont care if she got rejected by a jerk.
eric82 Posted March 29, 2010 Posted March 29, 2010 (edited) You're giving way too much thought to what these girls might think of you. So what if they're friends, have you even gone out with them individually yet? Let me guess, you fear that they might get jealous and competitive, or perceive you as a player? That kind of stuff just generally works in your favor. Plus, do you really think they don't/won't still give out their numbers to/go out with other guys (even your attractive friends) when they're interested? Edited March 29, 2010 by eric82
eric82 Posted March 29, 2010 Posted March 29, 2010 (edited) in other words, go with the girl you're more into Edited March 29, 2010 by eric82
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