Cinderella7 Posted March 29, 2010 Posted March 29, 2010 I've been dating a guy for almost two months now. We have yet to make it "exclusive" but for awhile it looked like things were heading that way. We normally see each other a few times a week and talk on the phone daily. We last saw each other on Tuesday night. He left early Thursday for a bachelor party. I wasn't expecting to talk to him daily while he was gone, but I did miss talking to him. I got a text or two a day saying hi and letting me know what he was up to while he was gone. We were texting earlier today and I mentioned possibly seeing each other later, because he is coming home today. He said maybe, but he's really tired and was planning on taking a nap. To be honest, I'm a little surprised he wasn't more into hanging out. We haven't seen each other or spoken in almost a week, and I miss him. I assumed he missed me too, but maybe that wasn't the case? Could he be losing interest? Guys, will you skip out on a chance to see a girl you're interested in if you're really tired? Sorry, I know I'm probably overanalzying this and I'm asking you guys to do a little mind reading here. But any insight is appreciated.
dazed1989 Posted March 29, 2010 Posted March 29, 2010 Personally if I was tired I would skip out on seeing a girl I was interested in, yeah. No point for him to be around if he's tired and/or contrary. Nothing positive would come from it. I would give it a bit longer before worrying
Hannah86 Posted March 29, 2010 Posted March 29, 2010 Oh my gosh, I'm going through the same thing--- And I've been through it before, twice. If you feel like your guy is taking you for granted, you need to back away hard for a few days. He could very well be tired from the trip, and need to unpack/get ready for the week/get back in order. I REALLY doubt his feelings for you evaporated while he was away! The fact that he texted you while he was away speaks volumes. Be aloof for a few days. Pretend to lose your phone for a day. He's used to your texts, so "leave your phone at work" and don't answer his calls for a night. "Go off instant messenger" because you're busy. Just be less available and less attainable. DO NOT be mean, and do not make it obvious what you're doing. You wouldn't leave your phone at work for two nights. You just need to UP your game for a couple days. I'm kind of going through this with my guy of two months. He's still interested but he turned down coming to my friend's dinner party with me in favor of playing basketball with his friends--he never would have done that before. Luckily, Easter is coming up so I'll be out of town. Perfect! Hope this helps!
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