sigurpol Posted March 28, 2010 Posted March 28, 2010 So, like some people on here, I gave a dating site a try.. again. Didn't really click with anyone, but one girl on the site caught my attention, and we started talking. Eventually, exchanged numbers and set a date. The day comes, she says she can't make it, but she wants to reschedule. Fine, we reschedule. That day comes, she gets a hold of me, telling me how she's had an awful morning and afternoon, and the night is getting worse. Finally I chime in asking, "so, did you want to stay in tonight?". She said she would, if that's okay. Is "sorry, but I really want to reschedule". I just left it up to her. One evening, I go home, and she asks me if I'm out... I wasn't, and told her so. She asked because she was out with some friends. Eventually she stops in where I work. Twice. Just to say hi, n' such. We bump into each other a few weeks later (during those weeks, we didn't get in touch) while out. So, we sit down at a place for drinks and just talk for a few hours. It was good, I guess. Next week, I ask if SHE'S out, because I was getting off work and I work in town. She said yea, but isn't sure where she's heading.. play text tag for an hour, and she lets me know where she's at. I get there, say hi, order a drink and turn around to see her putting her jacket on and leaving. She says, "I'm so sorry, I'm heading home, I gotta be up early.. you must hate me". I kinda laughed and said no, but you owe me. She told me she'll be out tomorrow, and to get a hold of her. So I do, I go into the place (it's a big area) with my friends. And I look like a fool trying to get a hold of her, but she isn't answering. Finally answers and says where she's at in the place, so I bail on my friends for a moment, telling them I'll catch up.. I walk to the place she's at.. can't find her. So I left. Today, I get a text. Just about her time last night. Like what the hell? Is she just on her own time and terms? Sounds like it. I don't even know why I'm bothering with this.
DustySaltus Posted March 29, 2010 Posted March 29, 2010 It's a waste of time. When you showed up at the place and she put her jacket on and left it was the icing on the cake. Stop talking to her. People that are into you don't treat others this way. Don't drive yourself crazy, it happens to all of us. Next.
Author sigurpol Posted March 29, 2010 Author Posted March 29, 2010 Hahah, seems unanimous. Done and done. Thanks, boys.
spiderowl Posted March 29, 2010 Posted March 29, 2010 No, I wouldn't bother with her at all. She's making no effort to meet up with you. OK, she's responding to texts, but nothing concrete has come of it. She's probably just being polite and friendly. Leave her to it and let her come after you if she's interested.
D-Lish Posted March 29, 2010 Posted March 29, 2010 Stop talking to her. She's a flake. It's your first "date" from online dating. If everyone met the perfect person the first time, all dating sites would charge for the service.
boogieboy Posted March 29, 2010 Posted March 29, 2010 You cant get frustrated from ONE date, you have alot of flakes to go through before you actually meet someone worthwhile. Stop building up these dates, you treat them all as if they will bail on you at any moment, no matter how good the chemistry is. Lesson learned, next time a woman makes a date with you, and flakes on the first date, she doesnt get a second date. Move on to the next, get it?
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