livinlovin Posted March 28, 2010 Posted March 28, 2010 I recently started seeing a new guy. I have some doubts about how our lifestyles might mesh in the long term (to be fair, I am pretty cautious have significant doubts about just about everyone). However, the sex is amazing. How much would you let good sex overshadow some minor doubts you have about a relationship?
marsle85 Posted March 28, 2010 Posted March 28, 2010 "Overshadow minor doubts..." Minor being the operative word. If it's good so far, I say stick it out until you have a better idea of what's bothering you. Doubts either diminish or manifest into something greater... so time will tell. For the mean time, enjoy the great sex!
Fouts Posted March 28, 2010 Posted March 28, 2010 Great sex is easy to find, or if they're not yet skilled but you're still very attracted to them, to teach. So in the grand scheme of things sex only doesn't take it very far. Maybe it's different for women and their men partners, but for men, most women are very eager to please
Silver_star Posted March 29, 2010 Posted March 29, 2010 sex can cloud your vision if you let it. Sex is a telltale sign of the passion that you both have inside of you. However it may be driven at different things and not eachother. Or one sided. Sex can be amazing, yet the relationship will ultimately fail if your not on the same page and dont want the same things in life..and eventually what YOU want in life will be more important than great sex.
LucreziaBorgia Posted March 29, 2010 Posted March 29, 2010 Once the sex becomes routine, the minor things will likely seem major.
mrkleen Posted March 29, 2010 Posted March 29, 2010 Once the sex becomes routine, the minor things will likely seem major. Well said. That hanging from the ceiling sex will fade over time, even in a great relationship. Having a good person who is reliable, fun, sweet, thoughtful - is much more important than a person that you have lots of issues with but have good sex.
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