Stock Car Racer Posted March 28, 2010 Posted March 28, 2010 I still can't get over her. I'm new to these forums, but I really need some advice. I'm 19 and it has been two years since my girlfriend and I broke up for the last time. I still dream about her and think about her all the time. My friends have tried to help, but they can only do so much. It's getting hard to sleep with her on my mind which is why I am up at 5:00 AM posting this. Evry love song I hear brings her name to my mind. I don't know how much longer I can do this. I have never been this depressed. I was always the class clown, and now it's getting hard to even fake a smile. I just can't admit to myself it's over is part of the problem. It took me over a year to take her picture out of my wallet, and even then I could barely do it. From the feel of her touch to the sound of her heartbeat I love every single thing she does. I want her back more than all the riches on this earth. She is more valuable than any gold or silver than anyone could offer me. She is the one woman I would give my own life for.
Hot Carl Posted March 28, 2010 Posted March 28, 2010 It's hard getting over someone. I think it's harder when you're young. You have a choice to make. You can continue to pine and whine and foster your pet pain while life goes on without you. Or you can put it all on a shelf and trust that you don't need her for anything and you never did. You have to be strong at some point and put her into your past where she belongs. It's your ego that holds onto her at this point. And you seem willing to forfeit the entire game to your ego, which would be a tragic and stupid mistake. Due to the process of growing up, she isn't who she was, and due to the same process she won't remain who she is. The girl you idealize just doesn't exist anymore. And you aren't the same guy anymore either. Sooner or later you'll decide to move on. But the longer you wait, the more time you will have wasted. And trust me, she's not worth it. Just answer this question: what has all your pain and sorrow done for you? Probably not a f*cking thing.
Jimmy87 Posted March 28, 2010 Posted March 28, 2010 I wish I could just turn it off aswell buddy, 3 months since I last saw my ex, Ive got a new girl and he has a new fella, but she is the only thing on my mind, like you said every song reminds me of her, im laying in bed with my new girl thinking of my ex, its not fair on her so I think im going to end it, but then ill be single and she has someone?? I wish I could just erase her from my thoughts, I don't regret being with her but I hate thinking about her all the time. You will get through this buddy, I know one day ill look back at this time in my life and think how stupid I was bein so hung up on a girl that was lucky to have me, not the other way round.....you should think this way aswell.
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