MrsPeaSoup Posted March 28, 2010 Posted March 28, 2010 Hey Guys, My love broke up with me two weeks ago. Here's the story in short: Relationship of 2 years, everything was perfect untill six months ago. About six months ago we began studying both on the other side of the country (We live in the Netherlands), which meant a LDR. I had way more difficulties coping with the distance than he did. He started picking up his new life like a young dog: doing everything there was to do. He said that I was still the most important aspect in his life, but it still allways felt as if I came last. I worked my ass off for my study (= 100+ h a week, doing Game Design) and was allways tired and quickly agitated. I couldn't cope with the distance, I got quickly angered because of stupid little things he said. And most of all: these stupid arguments ALLWAYS began on freakin' MSN (I HATE MSN). I banned him from MSN, as a precaution, but in the end that didn't work any longer. Everytime we saw each other we had to overcome a barrier of negative energy, before we started being happy again. Weird thing is, in those 6 months he still texted me or called me occasionally to say that I made him so happy, that he couldn't bare living without me and all that sort of things. But other times he said he didn't understand me, that he got tired of all the stupid things and that he hated that I didn't do as much fun things as he did, that I was doing homework all the time instead. He broke up with me because of all the misery that happened between us, he lost his feelings for me. Now, two weeks later, I have undergone what feels like a walkabout: talked to lot of people, began seeing things in other perspectives, etc. I think that I will be able to cope with the whole situation a Lot better than I could have before. Should I contact him and try to work things out? If so, when? In about a month or three? Do you guys think that is wise? Would the love come again or not? Thanks for reading this, though EDIT: current age = I'm 19 and he's 20
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