JustJoe Posted March 29, 2010 Posted March 29, 2010 MS. NOT Chan, I'm saying that all of the young girls who like 'bad boys", think what they will be like in 15 or 20 years. BTW they call them "bad boys', because they never become Men.
Author tami-chan Posted March 29, 2010 Author Posted March 29, 2010 MS. NOT Chan, I'm saying that all of the young girls who like 'bad boys", think what they will be like in 15 or 20 years. BTW they call them "bad boys', because they never become Men. hmmm...and what will these young girls think the "bad boys" will be like in 15 or 20 years? The same , I take it? since they never become "men"? You must forgive me, I am (obviously) not following you.
marsle85 Posted March 29, 2010 Posted March 29, 2010 Like does attract like. I don't want my guy to be outwardly "bad" - just like i'm not outwardly "bad". In between the sheets or when we're alone is a whole different story. If "bad" isn't there then, I'm disappointed.
JustJoe Posted March 29, 2010 Posted March 29, 2010 Tami, Bad boys "attitude", never changes, but their bodies do. I used to like a woman, who acted "cute", and "teenybopperish", it was attractive when she WAS a teenager, it was pathetic when she turned 35. Bad boys are the same.
Lovelybird Posted March 29, 2010 Posted March 29, 2010 To me a "bad girl" would be someone who hangs out in bars/clubs, gets drunk and loud in public, promiscuous, they wear revealing clothes..hmm..what else? is that enough stereotyping for you? This defination here isn't what these psychologist call a "bad girl" A "nice girl" is one who is a people pleaser, who do things not out of heart but of SHOULD, such as what others expect me to say or do, she does things out of fear. So "nice girl" isn't experienced by others as real. If a 'nice girl' dates a guy, most of time she is a doormat A "bad girl" does things out of her heart, no matter it is good or bad, so she is honest, and is experienced by others as real. But most of women are nice girls, even themselves don't think so, they do things out of fear or do whatever others do without thinking if they really want to. Teenage especially so, peer pressure
Author tami-chan Posted March 29, 2010 Author Posted March 29, 2010 This defination here isn't what these psychologist call a "bad girl" A "nice girl" is one who is a people pleaser, who do things not out of heart but of SHOULD, such as what others expect me to say or do, she does things out of fear. So "nice girl" isn't experienced by others as real. If a 'nice girl' dates a guy, most of time she is a doormat A "bad girl" does things out of her heart, no matter it is good or bad, so she is honest, and is experienced by others as real. But most of women are nice girls, even themselves don't think so, they do things out of fear or do whatever others do without thinking if they really want to. Teenage especially so, peer pressure Interesting, thank you. I see what you are saying. Let me just say this, I was just sharing what MY definition of a "bad girl" is(from what you quoted). I consider myself a "good girl", I am not sure if I am considered a "nice girl", though-as I am a tough boss and I have no patience for a lot of things. I do not do things just so I can prove a point. I do not do things for shock value either. That said, when I see person who is "altered"-split tongue, horn implants, etc,etc. I see a person with issues. Some people will see it as someone being honest to one's self expression, and therefore "bad ass" but I see it as someone crying out for attention and therefore "lame".
Recommended Posts