worriedah Posted March 27, 2010 Posted March 27, 2010 This guy I've talked to for a while online, I was looking on his facebook. I rarely use the site, but was on there to browse. I noticed his profile is actually viewable to the public and you can see the wall. There was this comment that is really bothering me now. I don't know what to think. So, the guy I'm talking to he left this comment on his facebook wall last night that said " who wants to go out tonight?". No one obviously responded until today. I noticed there was a response a few hours ago(today), that said "Sorry I didn't cuddle, woke up like, huh?" (this response was from a girl on his fb friend list). His response just a bit ago was just a smiley face. Guys, what does this mean? It sounds like he hooked up with the girl, or what the heck? What else could that mean? Why did she say sorry I didn't CUDDLE??
norajane Posted March 27, 2010 Posted March 27, 2010 Yes, it sounds like he and this girl did "something" last night. Hard to say what. Maybe she fell asleep while watching movies with him, or maybe she fell asleep after sex. Hard to tell from the comments. Why are you so concerned if he hooked up with someone? He's not your boyfriend. Sounds like you haven't even met this guy in person.
ADF Posted March 27, 2010 Posted March 27, 2010 I couldn't mean anything else. Not unless the poster was a cat or something.
threebyfate Posted March 27, 2010 Posted March 27, 2010 I think he's a guy who's keeping his options open. Has he expressed any real interest, like asking you out or has it just been a bit of online flirtation?
Author worriedah Posted March 27, 2010 Author Posted March 27, 2010 I think he's a guy who's keeping his options open. Has he expressed any real interest, like asking you out or has it just been a bit of online flirtation? Ok well actually we dated a while back some, and we are just talking again. I didn't feel like adding that before for some reason. He was making comments about us going out and seeing where it goes. He has been acting all flirty with me and showing lots of interest. I found out he went to a bar and house party. I just talked to him. He is denying they hooked up, but I don't believe it. Why else would the girl say sorry I didn't cuddle. Do friends cuddle? I think he is claiming they just slept in the same bed, but come on do you believe that ? He has shown real interest in me and surprised he is dating someone else. I think they did sleep together and if not will soon. I don't get it. He was just talking about seeing me, and he said he still loves me. You're right..keeping options open. I feel like I was just an option if he didn't find someone else.
threebyfate Posted March 27, 2010 Posted March 27, 2010 " who wants to go out tonight?" This is a very leading line. He's trolling for female attention and from the looks of it, someone bit and took the hook. He was making comments about us going out and seeing where it goes.Ambiguous and non-committal. I think you're hearing what you want to hear. I would walk on this guy and never look back. He's trouble with a capital "T".
dazzle22 Posted March 27, 2010 Posted March 27, 2010 Agree with ADF (hysteeerical) about he either slept with her, or the poster is a cat. He's a player...
Author worriedah Posted March 27, 2010 Author Posted March 27, 2010 Thanks for the responses. Well, I had a talk with him, and it progressed into a big blow out, so it's safe to say I won't be dating him. He completely denied it being a hook up, but then he was like "so what if I did screw someone..". The thing is, he made me think there might still be a chance with us, and was talking about us going out and hopefully it working out. I was just surprised to see that he apparently has got really "friendly" with some random girl I knew nothing about. I know he has the right to date someone else, because we are not currently dating, but that to me just looked like he jumped in the sack with her. He accused me of just assuming, as if I was completely off. How does he not understand how it would appear that he slept with her or just sleeping in the same bed is bothersome.
dazzle22 Posted March 27, 2010 Posted March 27, 2010 Hard life lesson about the need to be careful about whom you trust and how soon. There are many, many disingenuous players, especially on dating sites. It truly is a "buyer beware" world..
Hannah86 Posted March 29, 2010 Posted March 29, 2010 It sounds like they've been cuddling, then last night she didn't cuddle and "woke up like, huh?" meant she woke up without him. Rebound.
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