Author janie423 Posted March 29, 2010 Author Posted March 29, 2010 Disagree. If a woman does not mirror my attempts to contact her I assume she isn't interested & leave her alone. Most of the women I've met & dated asked me out first. only a marginal amount of women I asked out actually accepted. And I've been shot down quite a bit in my day. It not only feels good to have woman make the first move, it builds a mans confidence if he's in a romantic dry spell. What do you mean "mirror" your attempts? Give me an example if you would.
marsle85 Posted March 29, 2010 Posted March 29, 2010 We all have biases and imperfections in our judgement. Here's how you ladies look at us. The guy that walks into the bar alone and isn't attractive to you is - creepy. The guy that walks into the bar alone and isn't attractive to you but is funny is - cool. Guy that walks into the bar alone and is attractive to you but doesn't say much is - mysterious. Guy that walks into the bar with his buddies is - ok. Guy that walks into the bar with a girl in arm is - interesting. Guy that walks into the bar with two girls in both arms is - hawt lol. I have to disagree with the last one. What kind of girl hangs out with a guy who has another girl hanging on him- which then reflects on what kind of GUY that has to be. Anyway, all of those scenarios can we switched around and a man will think the same thing (plus "and I want to have sex with her")
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