flyguy23 Posted March 27, 2010 Posted March 27, 2010 I have had this group of friends from high school, we used to be real close, hang up everyday, and text all the time. but now it seems like nobody texts me or includes me in anything. two of them are my roommates and they barely talk to me ,for example my friends from home came and picked my two roommates up to take them back home and nobody told me until i saw my friends from home in my house. isn't that messed up? should I just stop talking to these people
RedCherries Posted March 30, 2010 Posted March 30, 2010 I don't think you should stop talking to them.. I think you should talk to them about it. Sit them down and tell them it's bothering you that they're leaving you out of things. Did something happen recently? Did you guys have a fight? There is always a reason for people to act the way they do. Sometimes it can be a stupid reason, like they think they're too cool for you but sometimes it can be that they think YOU'VE changed. Have you had a lot of work lately and you haven't been able to spend time with them? Maybe they felt like you were neglecting them and as sad as this is, they decided to neglect you. Or I could be totally wrong. Just throwing ideas out there. I don't think one should ever give up on their friends until they've found out a reason why. I hope you talk to them! I'm sure things will be cleared up. I've been in this situation too before and it was because I was the one pulling away (because of my ex-bf) and I didn't realize it until I asked them, and they told me! Then I worked on the problem and it went away. Good luck!
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