Woggle Posted March 27, 2010 Posted March 27, 2010 I promised about a week ago that I would give up being negative towards women for a week and I hope I have come across less angry lately. I have certainly been changing my thinking and I admit that I feel much happier and lighter. My wife and I have been all over each other this past week and I have noticed that I actually know some good women. Most women that I work with are actually disgusted by the two cheating twins as we like to call them. There are still moments where I need to take a breather and talk myself out of a hateful mood but I do want to make this a habit.
D-Lish Posted March 27, 2010 Posted March 27, 2010 . Most women that I work with are actually disgusted by the two cheating twins as we like to call them. Yeah, I'd be one of those women (not the twins, the other ones:cool:).
Hot Carl Posted March 27, 2010 Posted March 27, 2010 (edited) I prefer the bitter Woggle. This is such bullsh*t. Edited March 27, 2010 by Hot Carl
whichwayisup Posted March 27, 2010 Posted March 27, 2010 I promised about a week ago that I would give up being negative towards women for a week and I hope I have come across less angry lately. I have certainly been changing my thinking and I admit that I feel much happier and lighter. My wife and I have been all over each other this past week and I have noticed that I actually know some good women. Most women that I work with are actually disgusted by the two cheating twins as we like to call them. There are still moments where I need to take a breather and talk myself out of a hateful mood but I do want to make this a habit. :) I'm happy you're happy Wogs. I'm glad you've noticed how much better you're feeling..Being angry and bitter takes alot out of you and was draining "you." The longer you keep yourself on the straight and narrow it will become a normalacy for you. 1st and last thoughts in your head will be positive, happy and healthy! You've come a long way, so be proud of yourself!
CLC2008 Posted March 27, 2010 Posted March 27, 2010 I promised about a week ago that I would give up being negative towards women for a week and I hope I have come across less angry lately. I have certainly been changing my thinking and I admit that I feel much happier and lighter. My wife and I have been all over each other this past week and I have noticed that I actually know some good women. Most women that I work with are actually disgusted by the two cheating twins as we like to call them. There are still moments where I need to take a breather and talk myself out of a hateful mood but I do want to make this a habit. I think that's excellent, good for you Woggle. Despite some of the things I've read and disagree with, I would be right by your side in agreement with you against the twins you've posted about. Those women at your job are not a good influence in your life, and you should want no part of it within your life.
sweetjasmine Posted March 27, 2010 Posted March 27, 2010 Yay, Woggle, good for you. Glad to see you're happy.
counterman Posted March 27, 2010 Posted March 27, 2010 That's awesome Bitterness just makes us unnecessarily angry and tired for no reason. Does not feel good at all. I have been tiring to let go of things that bother me really quickly as well and just shrug it off. It really does feel lighter, doesn't it?
paddington bear Posted March 27, 2010 Posted March 27, 2010 See? that's great, keep it up. There will be lapses, but keep it up nonetheless. Feeling like you do now has to be better than the way you were feeling.
Author Woggle Posted March 27, 2010 Author Posted March 27, 2010 I prefer the bitter Woggle. This is such bullsh*t. Trust me when I say I am not turning into s softe. I actually feel that I am finally finding a balance between the best parts of the pre-divorce woggle and post divorce woggle. I am keeping the good parts of both and throwing out the bad. I will never be a doormat to any woman and if my wife were ever to betray me she will be out on the street but I am starting to realize that some good women do exist and not every female is the enemy. Often times a woman can be a better ally to men than many men are. Many times a man is better off in front a female judge in divorce court than an old man who sees man as providers and all women as victims. I still have no nice feelings for misandrists though.
threebyfate Posted March 27, 2010 Posted March 27, 2010 Good stuff, Woggle! Positive energy is a strength within itself but no one should be Mr. Marvin or Mrs. Mary Sunshine. Chirpy people should all be put away, for their own safety!
Lovelybird Posted March 28, 2010 Posted March 28, 2010 Good for you Woogle People say a good marriage ground a man, seems that happens for you
Eve Posted March 28, 2010 Posted March 28, 2010 I am just happy for you that you have someone decent. Many would trade places with you in a heartbeat. Its good that the poison of past hurts is leaving your system. Regarding the women at your work place - I think it noteworthy to comment that they probably havent fought against something in their lives that could have prevented them becoming so brittle. So, when I meet people like that my only desire is not to become like them. .. I hope they find happiness too one day. Otherwise they are just a warning of what can happen when a person does not aim higher in life. Take care, Eve xx
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