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Is it ok to put your S/o before you parents?


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Yesterday I was listening to a radio station and the topic was about dating and marriage. The topic of the day was is it right to put your S/O before your mom/dad?

 

the majority of the callers it evened out to be a 50/50 thing. Most people stated that they love their S/o and would do anything for them but would never put them before their mom. They stated that a relationship can be over the next day but your blood lasts forever..

 

what do you guys think?

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My folks have stuck with me since the day I was born. They've done too many great things for me that I cannot overlook. I can never put my SO before my mom and dad, and can't understand how other people could do so. My SO is replaceable, my folks are not.

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That's most definitely a toughy, assuming that my S/O is my spouse.

 

I heard of situations where someone would have to choose. Hopefully I am never confronted with a situation like that. I think I wouldn't put my S/O before my parents. I mean, they've been there for me right from the start and will always be there for me.

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My ex I loved with all heart. But i would never put him before my mom. My mom is still here for me and my ex is who knows where...

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Someone who truly cared about you would never put you in that situation...unlike my ex.

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Someone who truly cared about you would never put you in that situation...unlike my ex.

 

So true, yet sometimes family does it too.. then what? Between a rock and a hard place.

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I put my wife before my family because she forced me to choose.

 

I should of realised when it came to that my family knew / saw something bad in my wife that I refused to see.

 

They were right & guess what?

When my wife cheated & left my family was still there for me.

Even after I let my wife basically drive a wedge between me & them.

 

I never realised how much my wife slowly seperated me from them over the yrs.

 

If it ever comes to a point again where any woman is makeing me choose she is gone. Period.

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