dianna Posted March 26, 2010 Posted March 26, 2010 So a while ago ( 6 months ) after a horrible breakup I've met someone at a concert.Long story short we started to talk ( the chemistry / lust was and still is amazing) , we clicked and something happened. We went to "dates" or we would hang out at a concert with common friends and so on..the usual . Buddies. At first we both seemed to want a new relationship ( I broke up with my ex in july after almost 3 years and he hasn't had a real relationship since his breakup with his girlfriend 2 years ago ..they were togheter 4 years ).Then I said no..he said no..we stopped talking and started to talk 2 months ago but only online .Well I went on other dates, he also but 3 weeks ago we saw eachother again and well.. 2 days later we slept togheter . He was incredible , we was cuddly and all the mushy stuff ( wich was strange because he has the bad guy attitude in daily life ) . We talked and it was amazing.And I've fallen in love or something like that ..because it sure feels like Im walking on sunshines. Well AT LEAST I walked 2 days because after 2 days he went bezerk. Like he would call me names and be sweet and that but also he changed. Yeah I know he got what he wanted ..sex..but i wanted that too , but at the same time why the hell was he jealous when I told him about a guy that's been stalking me ? It was just sex and I have fallen in love.And he said that he doesn't want a relationship and such but still he acts like I am his. Im I dealing with a commitment phobie? I will go NC ..to see what happens but I would like some enlighment? Sometimes I feel like im falling for the wrong guy Thankies
Tony T Posted March 26, 2010 Posted March 26, 2010 It sounds like you are dealing with a guy who is immature, off balance and irrational. Enjoy the sex and his company, if you can, but write this guy off about being a keeper....AND DON'T TALK ABOUT OTHER MEN AROUND HIM! His behavior has absolutely nothing to do with commitment-phobia. He's got problems that run much deeper than that. I wouldn't get attached to this man. He's a certified NUT!
Author dianna Posted March 26, 2010 Author Posted March 26, 2010 Thank you Tony T Oh well..there are plenty of fish in the water...
Tony T Posted March 26, 2010 Posted March 26, 2010 Thank you Tony T Oh well..there are plenty of fish in the water... Yes, and a lot of them are crazy as hell...and sharks to boot!
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