ashleigh422 Posted March 26, 2010 Posted March 26, 2010 So, theres this guy.. who could very easiliy be converted to FWB.. but as of right now.. we are on a good trail to more.. So.. I have two kids.. both have ****ty dads who don't EVER watch them. My mom and others do thier share and I hate to ask them to babysit anymore than I have to.. for necessay things, not for me to go on a date. So.. after trying to plan a real date I decided that I have to make him a priority and not an option. We stopped talking once before becuase I made him an option.. whatever that means. He wants to take me out tomorrow night, I could not line up a babysitter (As much as it sucks, its at least admirable that I am a great mom and don't pawn my kids off on someone else.. right?) I decided that I would have him come over at 8:30 or so when my kids go to sleep for a date.. per say.. lol.,, I refuse to bring men into thier lives so it has to be when they go to sleep.. I definately don't want to... be intimate.. but what can we do to have fun and get to know each other more all while being quiet? Is this destined for disaster? Any ideas are much welcomed:)
Caramelize Posted March 26, 2010 Posted March 26, 2010 If you feel you are ready,Have a meal at the house as if it's a restaurant. At the table/not the couch. IF the lights are not bright you will be more encouraged to keep it down. But don't let it be too low or you get too frisky.
calizaggy Posted March 26, 2010 Posted March 26, 2010 So, theres this guy.. who could very easiliy be converted to FWB.. but as of right now.. we are on a good trail to more.. Where did you meet this guy online? Good trail to more but have not been on a date? You might convert him to a FWB? What?
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