my long distance girlfriend

[ferryrider]

im 20 shes 18 turning 19. she and i live in Ohio we are separated 3 hours away from each other. shes so beautiful. i love her so much cus she has the exact same interests as me and we're almost the same person. she's there when i need her... so she's basically everything i want in a girl. we been dating for 9 months, but yet to see each other. she made an effort to visit me in december but supposibly her car broke down. i just have some money and car problems as i truthfully told her. she says that her and her family will be moving in my area after she graduates high school within 3 months, but she has said stuff before like visiting me which never happend. should i believe her? we talk every night (which i love) but i wanna break up with her cus we never see each other and believe we aren't really in a relationship, but then i can't break up with her cus she makes me happy. what should i do? wait to see if she and her family actually move here? or tell her it's over? please help

[aerogurl87]

If you really want to see her, get on a bus or train and go ride to her city. 3 hours isn't that far away (especially compared to others on here). I know a girl who goes to college about 2 hours from her boyfriend and he drives up to see her almost every weekend, and they've been doing it for the past 2 years or so. So it's doable, just look up prices for buses, trains, and/or flights to her city or one nearby since you say you're afraid your car won't be able to make the journey.

[WantToGetExBack]

You should go and meet her yourself. I made the same mistake of waiting and it never happened, so don't make the same mistake as I did. And if she is interested in you as well, she will be happy to see you there, otherwise don't waste your time.

[FreddieJones]

Try to scare her by saying that you are breaking up, see her response. If you feels that she really loves you and will be panic with this, go get a bus. You should sacrifice and tried your best make it real before breaking up.