Shyguy0898 Posted March 25, 2010 Posted March 25, 2010 I will try and keep this as short as i can. Any Thoughts Advice would me much apreciated I am 26 Never had a long term Girlfriend. Through this I have Love Shyness & lack confidence. Having understood my problems i have done several things to improve my confidence even had three dates in the last 6 months not many for some but a lot for me two turned out bad but no loss as even if i was not shy would not have seen them again other she is still a friend nothing else. Though a friend there is a Really Nice Girl who likes me been out 3 times already but on a double dates. 1st Date went poor but got away with it as we arranged to the same again few days later. The 2nd date was a lot better as I could drink that time does not take much couple of pints and im settled, We even slept in the same room could not still push myself to try it on or get a kiss or anything again another night out was arranged so thought i am not doing to bad. Third date was disasterous she left me and got a lift back. Basically i sat there like a boring lump. 1st hr was ok then all my ready made questions had finished. Although i drove and had not much sleep the night before and knew it would be bad because of how i am. Was in a town pub with drink i would have been ok but obviously with driving i could not drink Texted/Phoned her next day ask if she is ok had no reply . She wrote on her Facebook that she is confused which i am certain is down to me she probably thinks i dont like her much which could not be further from the truth but with my shyness this is the' impression i would give. anyway in a few days she is in a mutual pub similar outing i can drink so will be better. She knows i am there. Thinking of just basically telling her i really like her and admitting im painfully shy and just forcing myself to open up she must have noticed on the 1st date how shy i was and she still seen me again and we exchanged a few texts so hoping all is not lost. Any advice please.
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