Peter_pan Posted March 25, 2010 Posted March 25, 2010 Met a girl, like her, she likes me, txt all the time... But she has just come out of a relationship and tells you she don't feel ready for meeting up just yet. Literally went from txting all the time, to not much. which is probably better as you don't want to make up how you perceive someone to be from txt's. But yeah Im trying to stay in the picture without becoming a pain at the same time i don't want her to lose interest.. she has recently split from an ex also. how do I play this guys
DustySaltus Posted March 25, 2010 Posted March 25, 2010 Met a girl, like her, she likes me, txt all the time... But she has just come out of a relationship and tells you she don't feel ready for meeting up just yet. Literally went from txting all the time, to not much. which is probably better as you don't want to make up how you perceive someone to be from txt's. But yeah Im trying to stay in the picture without becoming a pain at the same time i don't want her to lose interest.. she has recently split from an ex also. how do I play this guys Cut the amount of contact you have with her in half. Become less available without looking like a jerk. If and when she is ready she will come back to you for the right reasons. Give her time to clear her head.
ADF Posted March 25, 2010 Posted March 25, 2010 Frankly, I think she is hiding something from you. I don't know what it is. Maybe she's met somone else, maybe she's lost interest for whatever reason. If you put a gun to my head and made me guess, I'd say her recent ex is back in her life. But I don't know that. What I do know is that too many people in this world are all about making things as easy as possible on themselves, other people's feelings be damned. It sounds like she is just trying to drift away. This is easier for her, because it saves her what might be a difficult conversation with you. I 'd demand a straight answer. If she balks, break off all contact.
Author Peter_pan Posted March 25, 2010 Author Posted March 25, 2010 (edited) Cut the amount of contact you have with her in half. Become less available without looking like a jerk. If and when she is ready she will come back to you for the right reasons. Give her time to clear her head. yeah cheers, good advice. see thats the thing i hope she realises why I've become more distant. And not think its because im bored/boring. I send her a txt here and there and its nice we still txt, but not constantly like at first. I hope when she is ready she will want to see me again. time will tell i guess. @adf, I would agree, since my experience with women would point to that there is another guy/s etc since anyone knows that a good looking girl will have a very long list of guys to pick from so i am just a number. Thing is though, she split with him. although she has met me one time, she is no longer ready to let me take her out again, even though she enjoyed the evening we spent together at a bar, so its not like she didn't continue to txt me etc. Im basically trying not to be generic with her, like being standard. we did txt flirt a lot, pictured sent back and fourth. but then the boil went to a simmer Edited March 25, 2010 by Peter_pan
USMCHokie Posted March 25, 2010 Posted March 25, 2010 Super easy launch. Either the ex is back in the mix, or she picked someone else in the stable of men she was talking to. Regardless, this is a road that will go nowhere. Move on... Disclaimer: Yea, yea...I know I don't give women much credit...
Author Peter_pan Posted March 25, 2010 Author Posted March 25, 2010 Super easy launch. Either the ex is back in the mix, or she picked someone else in the stable of men she was talking to. Regardless, this is a road that will go nowhere. Move on... Disclaimer: Yea, yea...I know I don't give women much credit... haha thanks bro
boogieboy Posted March 25, 2010 Posted March 25, 2010 Yo uonly met up once? Sorry to tell you this, she didnt like you enough to keep this going - based on your first meeting. You will have to find another girl, you wont get her back. She's ready for a relationship, just not with you.
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