tylerdurden Posted March 24, 2010 Posted March 24, 2010 I ve been coming on this website for over a month, and thanks to all I have finally moved on. Thats why I would like to share my story. Been broken up for almost two months after a 9 months relationship, I agree its not a lot , but I put everything I had in this relationship. She wanted to stay friends, I refused , she was sending me emails, and I was trying to read between the lines, but It leads me nowhere. NC is the best thing I did, thats why I highly recommend it to everyone.. Anyway last week, I put aside my low self esteem and my shyness, and I went to talk to a girl in a club..things were going great,we hooked up the following day and I end up spending a very good week end.. Woman can smell confidence...a month ago no woman would have been interested in me...Since this week end, Two girls gave me their number, not to mention the girls smiling at me in the street... So dont forget:-Go NC as soon as possible, No Contact No nothing, just vanish from the earth. -Keep yourself busy, try to make improvement on yourself to become a better person - Be grateful for what you are and what you have, there is much worse things in this world than a heartbreak. - Try to make a conversation with an unknown person -Now think that YOU are the prize, and noone else.. - YOU are the most important person in YOUR life (except if you have kids) So thats my story, I wish everyone the same ending, the sooner you let go the better it is.. PS :also Its true...THEY come back when you are moving on..Got an email from the Ex, saying that she will always be there for me and all that c***p. I wont answer it..Cause what I feel right now is priceless, no turning back!! Cheers
supersub Posted March 24, 2010 Posted March 24, 2010 I ve been coming on this website for over a month, and thanks to all I have finally moved on. Thats why I would like to share my story. Been broken up for almost two months after a 9 months relationship, I agree its not a lot , but I put everything I had in this relationship. She wanted to stay friends, I refused , she was sending me emails, and I was trying to read between the lines, but It leads me nowhere. NC is the best thing I did, thats why I highly recommend it to everyone.. Anyway last week, I put aside my low self esteem and my shyness, and I went to talk to a girl in a club..things were going great,we hooked up the following day and I end up spending a very good week end.. Woman can smell confidence...a month ago no woman would have been interested in me...Since this week end, Two girls gave me their number, not to mention the girls smiling at me in the street... So dont forget:-Go NC as soon as possible, No Contact No nothing, just vanish from the earth. -Keep yourself busy, try to make improvement on yourself to become a better person - Be grateful for what you are and what you have, there is much worse things in this world than a heartbreak. - Try to make a conversation with an unknown person -Now think that YOU are the prize, and noone else.. - YOU are the most important person in YOUR life (except if you have kids) So thats my story, I wish everyone the same ending, the sooner you let go the better it is.. PS :also Its true...THEY come back when you are moving on..Got an email from the Ex, saying that she will always be there for me and all that c***p. I wont answer it..Cause what I feel right now is priceless, no turning back!! Cheers Good for you Tyler. Its good to hear a NC story where a guy manages to get his balls back! NC is hard sure, but its certainly better than being stuck in the 'Orbiter' or Friend zone. I've been reading some articles on 'Orbiters' (love the analogy) Basically men or ex boyfriends that circle around a woman they are attracted or still attracted to. Talk about demeaning yourself!
Author tylerdurden Posted March 24, 2010 Author Posted March 24, 2010 Good for you Tyler. Its good to hear a NC story where a guy manages to get his balls back! NC is hard sure, but its certainly better than being stuck in the 'Orbiter' or Friend zone. I've been reading some articles on 'Orbiters' (love the analogy) Basically men or ex boyfriends that circle around a woman they are attracted or still attracted to. Talk about demeaning yourself! You have to think this way: YOU are the prize. Its THEIR loss. YOU have tried everything, so there is no point wasting your time on someone who doesnt value you. Make YOURSELF happy first DO NOT put your happiness in someone else's hand. Be grateful for what YOU are YOU will find someone else who will love you even more. I rather be a total stranger than being a friend. The frienship with an ex always go in one way and trust me its never your way.
supersub Posted March 24, 2010 Posted March 24, 2010 You have to think this way: YOU are the prize. Its THEIR loss. YOU have tried everything, so there is no point wasting your time on someone who doesnt value you. Make YOURSELF happy first DO NOT put your happiness in someone else's hand. Be grateful for what YOU are YOU will find someone else who will love you even more. I rather be a total stranger than being a friend. The frienship with an ex always go in one way and trust me its never your way. Totally agree Brother!
USMCHokie Posted March 25, 2010 Posted March 25, 2010 YOU are the prize. So proud of you, bro. It's at this point where you're at that you truly move on and life gets awesome again.
Author tylerdurden Posted March 25, 2010 Author Posted March 25, 2010 So proud of you, bro. It's at this point where you're at that you truly move on and life gets awesome again. To be honest, Im really glad I found this website, because otherwise I would still be pinning on her. It takes : Goodwill Strength A bit of luck I guess and also changing your way of thinking. If I managed to do it , everyone can! Make yourself wonderful!
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