BeautifulMind1 Posted March 24, 2010 Posted March 24, 2010 ok so me and my girlfriend of 8 years decide to take a break because things were just a little bumpy, and we seemed to be in a runt due to career/school issues and family issues.. nothing too serious but we felt we needed space.. it was pretty much my idea, and she understood and went along with it. (btw i'm 25) now, almost 4 months later we both feel that we should work at it because we love eachother and we def missed eachother.. Heres the problem, during this time i didnt even kiss a girl.. not even once, and by choice.. however she told me that one night her and a friend she's had for like 15+ years went out, had a few drinks, and shared similar stories so naturally they bonded and ended up kissing and even worse.. she ended up giving him head in his car, and he fingered her etc etc.. no actual intercourse tho! she said it just happened and that emotions were just too high so it occurred. she also went to his house the following day and ended up making out with him, and the whole fingering thing etc.. etc.. still no actual intercourse! ok, now here is my dilemma, i know this guy, i met him a few times, and i know he's a decent dude and that they know eachother for a long time, and that he was in a similar situation blah blah.. and being that i was my girls first, now i feel like i lost a piece of her, shes been with another guy, and the mental image of her giving him head and him touching her is killing me.. at the same time its understandable and i do love her.. what should my next move be? i'm confused, its hard for me to not think about the things she's done! will these thoughts eventually pass? she says shes always loved me, and that she didnt feel for him the way she did for me.. as a matter of fact, she dropped him instantly for me! what do you guys think??
alphamale Posted March 24, 2010 Posted March 24, 2010 what do you guys think?? i think they had intercourse, twice
rand0m Posted March 24, 2010 Posted March 24, 2010 I think she should have kept this information to herself.
Author BeautifulMind1 Posted March 24, 2010 Author Posted March 24, 2010 LOL@alphamale.. dude trust me i questioned the life out of her.. she swears.. i even made her swear to god and she takes that **** real seriously.. lol.. trust me i'm not naive, i know there is still a possibility that it happened.. @random.. i appreciate her honestly.. she said that if we were gonna get back, that we had to be honest with eachother.. and that she wanted to come clean, which makes me think she's being honest, cuz she honestly didnt have to tell me these things.. thanks for the replies..
alphamale Posted March 24, 2010 Posted March 24, 2010 LOL@alphamale.. dude trust me i questioned the life out of her.. she swears.. i even made her swear to god and she takes that **** real seriously.. lol.. trust me i'm not naive, i know there is still a possibility that it happened.. @random.. i appreciate her honestly.. she said that if we were gonna get back, that we had to be honest with eachother.. and that she wanted to come clean, which makes me think she's being honest, cuz she honestly didnt have to tell me these things.. thanks for the replies.. dude, chicks are a lot craftier than you think
Author BeautifulMind1 Posted March 24, 2010 Author Posted March 24, 2010 i know bro.. trust me i kno.. lol.. it sucks! but the question is.. what happens next?
samspade Posted March 25, 2010 Posted March 25, 2010 i think they had intercourse, twice ^^^^^^ That and I think you are 25 and should move on. Do the math. Eight years of dating - now you're in your mid twenties. Time to branch out and meet new people. She already did.
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