supersub Posted March 24, 2010 Posted March 24, 2010 Does anyone have any reasons why someone would play mind games after a break up? Shouldn't they just be moving on? Does anyone have any experiences of such things to share? Thx.
USMCHokie Posted March 24, 2010 Posted March 24, 2010 No one can play mind games with you after a breakup if you follow strict NC. Simple as that.
neoskunk Posted March 24, 2010 Posted March 24, 2010 i have been through 5 months of mind games. Girl tells me she misses me but doesn't want to get back together. Wants to hang out with me one day and won't talk to me the next. They do this to help themselves get over you. Don't help them. They want to know that you are not over them. They want that confidence boost. Despite the mind games it will probably end up being over in the long run. Do yourself a favor and stop talking to him/her. <-- Best advice ever, i promise!
Author supersub Posted March 24, 2010 Author Posted March 24, 2010 i have been through 5 months of mind games. Girl tells me she misses me but doesn't want to get back together. Wants to hang out with me one day and won't talk to me the next. They do this to help themselves get over you. Don't help them. They want to know that you are not over them. They want that confidence boost. Despite the mind games it will probably end up being over in the long run. Do yourself a favor and stop talking to him/her. <-- Best advice ever, i promise! I guess USMchokie has it totally right as you do neoskunk. If you are in total NC I guess it is impossible!
Rearden Metal Posted March 24, 2010 Posted March 24, 2010 Start reading everyone's stories. Mind games are par for the course. Grab yer ballz and tell her to screw.
Author supersub Posted March 24, 2010 Author Posted March 24, 2010 Start reading everyone's stories. Mind games are par for the course. Grab yer ballz and tell her to screw. I guess women do it to see if they can still yank your chain. Interesting though. I think people go slightly mental in these situations.
Rearden Metal Posted March 25, 2010 Posted March 25, 2010 I guess women do it to see if they can still yank your chain. Interesting though. I think people go slightly mental in these situations. Yes, absolutely true.
ciu Posted March 25, 2010 Posted March 25, 2010 It helps them to get over you faster. Plus, their ego still wants to hear / know that you are not over them, it gives them confidence and the upperhand in the rapport you might have (if ever) in the future. But you can play mind games with them too..
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