McGrupp Posted March 24, 2010 Posted March 24, 2010 so a lot of the time after a rough end to a relationship we blame ourselves and maybe rightfully so. we walk the streets with the sorrow and pain, knowing if we could go back in time we would do everything different and things would be so ok. however we cant go back in time, and letting go may sound trite and cliche, but it is what you must do...NOW so you say how do you let go? a good way to start to do this is to re-write your story. for example, months after my breakup I would tell people I was depressed, doomed to be alone and that I ****ED UP the best thing that ever happened to me. that was my story and I was willing to regal any and all parties with it in real life and on here. BUT...this is not my story. no. and its not yours either. see I would rather my story be one of someone who turned their heartbreak into something great, someone who not only loved that one woman, but many woman and found out things about themselves most never do. The most painful thing in life is change. To get out of this pain will hurt more and more everyday until the day you decide to switch it around and say, "this sucked, and it hurt, but the awesome person I became now, I would've had to dump them" Seriously. really get to that point. wake up in the morning and say I will not give another day to this person that doesn't give a **** about me. You went NC, not to get them back, but to detach myself from the most powerful drug in the world. Love. So rewrite your story. Imagine where you want to be in 1 year, 3 years, 5 years and everyday go towards that, and its going to hurt, oohhh its going to hurt so bad. Because your changing. Your not that person anymore, theyre not that person...who cares what they do. All the cliche's ring true, but you don't realize it till you are truly over them, see something awesome and realize life goes on. And its pretty good when you get your head out of the sand.
GrayClouds Posted March 26, 2010 Posted March 26, 2010 Good Post McGrupp, you really have made some substantive progress.
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