hopesndreams Posted March 24, 2010 Posted March 24, 2010 It's his birthday. I have not answered any of his emails, even though a few were "desperate" for 2 weeks, as of today. This is the longest I have gone. I'm not feeling any better because of it, obviously and it could take months. One day, I won't think of him, right? There are no longer any happy memories, so I guess I'm getting there.
Ilovecake Posted March 24, 2010 Posted March 24, 2010 I suspect it will be hard for a while but you're doing great. It's all mind over matter. Stay strong and if you feel like you can't take it just type here. It really helped me in the first few months. You'll probably think about your ex here and there but as time goes by those thoughts will no longer feel painful just indifferent. Lot’s of strength and the best of luck to you.
paleblue Posted March 25, 2010 Posted March 25, 2010 congrats on staying strong! you really are better off right now. thats the trap... b-days, holidays... the perfect reason to break the NC thing. but really you just wind up screwing yourself. maybe someday when you dont think of him, yeah, it will be cool, but right now? nah. yessss, it is a long and very hard road. and it sucks, but it does get better in time! that i can promise you! remember theres a reason why you broke up!
angelaM Posted March 25, 2010 Posted March 25, 2010 If you've been able to let go of the happy memories, that's a HUGE step. Good for you.
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