countingstarsagain Posted March 24, 2010 Posted March 24, 2010 Back in October, my boyfriend of 3.5 years, the man I was sure I was going to marry, left me for someone else. My heart was ripped out and I never though I'd ever feel good ever again. Days went by. I did NC from the start, but occasionally back slid. It was a rollercoaster of emotions, there's no denying that. Now, about 5 months later, I feel completely indifferent to him. I don't think about him very often at all anymore, when once I couldn't go an hour. I've met someone new and he is my complete equal. I had no idea there would ever be someone I'd be more compatible with than my ex, but I was horribly wrong. I'm happier than I've ever been. I never dreamed of coming out of the depression I was in just a few months ago. But it happened. Now when I stumble upon a picture of my ex and the girl he left me for, my heart no longer races. I don't get that nervous feeling in my stomach. I'm completely indifferent. It is amazing. I just wanted to speak to all the broken hearts out there. I've been where you are. I've went through the motions and finally reach the other side. I want to encourage you to stay strong. No matter what the situation, time will heal if you allow it to. Just take care of yourself and you'll make it. Good luck! Keep your heads up!
Ilovecake Posted March 24, 2010 Posted March 24, 2010 :bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny: Congratulations :bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny:
DustySaltus Posted March 24, 2010 Posted March 24, 2010 Great story. I'll hop on the bunny bandwagon as well
spriggig Posted March 24, 2010 Posted March 24, 2010 Thank you, that is what I need to hear today of all days. Thanks so much.
Beeotch Posted March 24, 2010 Posted March 24, 2010 Back in October, my boyfriend of 3.5 years, the man I was sure I was going to marry, left me for someone else. My heart was ripped out and I never though I'd ever feel good ever again. Days went by. I did NC from the start, but occasionally back slid. It was a rollercoaster of emotions, there's no denying that. Now, about 5 months later, I feel completely indifferent to him. I don't think about him very often at all anymore, when once I couldn't go an hour. I've met someone new and he is my complete equal. I had no idea there would ever be someone I'd be more compatible with than my ex, but I was horribly wrong. I'm happier than I've ever been. I never dreamed of coming out of the depression I was in just a few months ago. But it happened. Now when I stumble upon a picture of my ex and the girl he left me for, my heart no longer races. I don't get that nervous feeling in my stomach. I'm completely indifferent. It is amazing. I just wanted to speak to all the broken hearts out there. I've been where you are. I've went through the motions and finally reach the other side. I want to encourage you to stay strong. No matter what the situation, time will heal if you allow it to. Just take care of yourself and you'll make it. Good luck! Keep your heads up! That's awesome!
paleblue Posted March 25, 2010 Posted March 25, 2010 :bunny: indifference is the best place to be with an ex! :bunny:
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