tincanman99 Posted March 24, 2010 Posted March 24, 2010 Maybe spring is in the air who knows or I am brain dead but in the last few weeks I have had several women friends tell me very sexual things. I know women have sexual thoughts and its natural but I was just kind of surprised they verbalized them to me as they never have done it before. I am trying to understand under what circumstances it becomes ok to verbalize stuff like this. I had one friend tell me very matter of factly that the guys equipment has to be a certain size or its a no go. I was like ummmmmm, ok..... Than my trainer who is my pal told me last night that she hooked up with some guy who has been pursuing her. He is a huge guy and she is very tiny and petite. She said she has no interest in him. I said jokingly is he too big as he is easily 6'6" and she says point blank "he is not big everywhere" and than described to me in very graphical terms with a piece of gym equipment at how big his equipment was. I just kind of laughed but I was like ummm, ok. I didnt react negatively and am not a prude by any means. It just took me off guard as women you are not intimate with and even than wont say stuff like this. Is it because they are comfortable with me? I am not sure how I am supposed to react. I am not judgemental or a prude. I was just kind of surprised.
carhill Posted March 24, 2010 Posted March 24, 2010 'Well, I'm hung like a horse. Are you into bestiality?' said with a little smirk on your face. Watch the reaction carefully.
SilkRose Posted March 24, 2010 Posted March 24, 2010 Maybe spring is in the air who knows or I am brain dead but in the last few weeks I have had several women friends tell me very sexual things. I know women have sexual thoughts and its natural but I was just kind of surprised they verbalized them to me as they never have done it before. I am trying to understand under what circumstances it becomes ok to verbalize stuff like this. I had one friend tell me very matter of factly that the guys equipment has to be a certain size or its a no go. I was like ummmmmm, ok..... Than my trainer who is my pal told me last night that she hooked up with some guy who has been pursuing her. He is a huge guy and she is very tiny and petite. She said she has no interest in him. I said jokingly is he too big as he is easily 6'6" and she says point blank "he is not big everywhere" and than described to me in very graphical terms with a piece of gym equipment at how big his equipment was. I just kind of laughed but I was like ummm, ok. I didnt react negatively and am not a prude by any means. It just took me off guard as women you are not intimate with and even than wont say stuff like this. Is it because they are comfortable with me? I am not sure how I am supposed to react. I am not judgemental or a prude. I was just kind of surprised. Sounds like they are comfortable with you as you seem non judgemental, its great to have male friends you don't have to censor yourself around, I need more of those. What you're hearing is the tip of the iceberg, when women talk to women serious details can be exchanged all the time.
carhill Posted March 24, 2010 Posted March 24, 2010 Beware of girlfriend with penis syndrome. Too many platonic female friends will queer up your romantic style. Trust me, I know, and I've heard the 'serious details', like sexual proclivities, affairs, revenge moves, all that manipulation stuff. That's why I'm so good at calling it out. Lots of experience. IMO, better to keep things light and topical with women. They've got girlfriends for that other stuff. As I posted elsewhere, I got a dose of it a couple weeks ago and scooted to the other side of the couch and invited the married lady to get some MC and talk with her husband, in exactly those words. And, no, I wasn't going to get high with her. Bad karma
phineas Posted March 24, 2010 Posted March 24, 2010 I know what OP is talking about. Had a woman friend bring up how her friend is "shaved" then told me she only trims it & asked me what I thought because she thinks totally shaved is just too unantural. I replied, trimmed is good enough for me though I prefer shaved. I don't want to have to bring a macheti to bed in order to get my tounge down there. She then realized there is no such thing as TMI where I am concerned & has since kept that stuff to her self. :lmao:
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