sarahrosex Posted March 24, 2010 Posted March 24, 2010 two months ago i discovered my boyfriend slept with someone else. we decided to have some space, he declared he would do anything to get me back. now, i feel i am ready to begin getting things on track with him (we talked last week) and we are talking and i discover during this break, he has slept with two more girls. and he now says he "isnt sure" he wants to be with me. i am so depressed. i dont know what to do - we were together for just under two years, but he was my best friend and i thought soulmate. how can i begin to move on? i dont even want to get out of bed in the morning.
The Paper Knight Posted March 24, 2010 Posted March 24, 2010 Sorry to hear, cheating sucks and causes the worst pain. - be strong and go total NC - read other posts of people with similar issues - stay away from your EX at all costs - delete everything and throw away all memorables You also sound depressed and may require pro help, this is nothing to be ashamed of as you have been hit by a bus. Take stock you are a healthy individual and are not starving in some ditch. Good-luck
phineas Posted March 24, 2010 Posted March 24, 2010 He's no friend of yours. freinds / boy friends even when on a break don't do that if they mean it when they say they will do anything to get you back. sorry.
Dexter Morgan Posted March 24, 2010 Posted March 24, 2010 two months ago i discovered my boyfriend slept with someone else. we decided to have some space, he declared he would do anything to get me back. he should have done anything to KEEP you and show he cared in the first place. make this "space" between you two permanent. now, i feel i am ready to begin getting things on track with him (we talked last week) and we are talking and i discover during this break, he has slept with two more girls. and he now says he "isnt sure" he wants to be with me. once someone has cheated, there is no way you can really 100% trust them ever again and the cheating will always be in the back of your mind somewhere. its just not worth it when you could be out there finding a decent man. i am so depressed. i dont know what to do - we were together for just under two years, but he was my best friend and i thought soulmate. how can i begin to move on? i dont even want to get out of bed in the morning. consider this a case of someone savig your life. if he was your soulmate, he wouldn't have cheated. You don't know what to do? you forget about this jerk and get out and live your life. There are plenty of GOOD men out there, you will find one. and when you do, you'll wonder why you wasted so much time being depressed over a worthless cheater who clearly wants to have sex with as many different girls as he can.
Alone&Hurt Posted March 28, 2010 Posted March 28, 2010 I can feel your pain. I posted about a cheating situation I'm currently going through just within the past week so I'm probably one broken heart talking to another. I just wanted to put some support up. We definitely deserve someone that can treat us awesome. We are strong and have been through some major pain; remember that there is a person that is made for us. That person that is not only made to be awesome for us but to also help heal that pain to make us the best person we could be. Let that piece of crap have his trashy girls. They aren't going to be good for him, just like he's not good for you. Concentrate on becoming a better you. Something that will make you more valuable to yourself and therefore everyone else. You're out of his league--just show yourself that.
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