SleepingDog Posted March 28, 2010 Posted March 28, 2010 Depends on your relationship with her husband. Friends who knew and didn't tell me about my wife's affair, ceased being my friends.
Fallen Angel Posted March 28, 2010 Posted March 28, 2010 Normally, I'm all for being honest. But he is over there and he can't do anything with the knowledge except stew, be upset and that can lead to him not keeping his mind on what it needs to be on. He isn't in Disneyland; if his head is distracted, he could end up dead. So stay out of it - for now. This is the best answer. If you feel the need to disclose the information to him, do it AFTER he is home and safe. There have been men who have become much more reckless with their safty after getting news of this sort. it not only will endanger him even further, but also endanger the well-being and possibly the lives of all those he fights along-side. But, possibly you should let her know that your friendship is henceforth disolved, and that you intend to disclose to her husband upon his return. Perhaps her knowledge of imminent "outting" will be the catalyst for her ending the behaviour, or ending the sham of a marriage. (though my guess is she stays for the combat pay?)
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