Toki Posted March 24, 2010 Posted March 24, 2010 I've been seeing a new girl after about a year and half of being separated from my ex, I thought we had chemistry, but as I'm finding out more and more, we're just not cut out of the same stone, and my predilections are telling me to cut my losses now. We've only been on a few dates, and I'm not sure whether she likes me or not, and I myself am not sure if I like her. Stupidly, I end up sleeping with every girl I've ever dated within the first date, and I'm not sure if I'm hoping that things will change and get better, or if I'm staying because I don't want to repeat the dating circle all over again. However, my spidey senses are tingling and it's telling me she'll end it, but I could just be paranoid. I've ended every important relationship I've been in, and part of me just wants to stay so I can get my ass dumped for once in my life... should I end it? or should I stick around and see if I'm just having commitment jitters?
Nantes Posted March 24, 2010 Posted March 24, 2010 If you're fairly sure that she might end it soon, then stick around for a bit and let her dump your ass. In the meantime, just try not to be too nice to her so she has more incentive to break things off with you. However, if she wants to continue seeing you, and you are still not feeling it, then don't lead her on and you should break up with her. It's only been a few dates, so give it a little more time to see how things unfold.
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