orib60 Posted March 24, 2010 Posted March 24, 2010 Hi, im new at this forum, and I really need some help figuring this out... This is the Story.. I met this guy some months ago, and we felt attracted for each other... He asked for my number, and call and wrote to me a few times, but we didnt have had the chance to go out until last week... We went out and it was great date... we talked, we laughed... We saw each other that day, and the day after.. and everything went pretty well... i mean, things really flow!... After that, I had to travel the whole next week, but still we keep on talking every day... he wrote to me by celphone every single day; In the morning, asking me how was my day at the afternoon, saying he misses me, sending me kisses... and stuff.... We where up to see each other that next weekend. The day I got back to the city, he kind of disappear.... he wrote to me at 11:30 pm to apologize because he felt sleep and was sleeping all day long.. hungover he said.... And he asked me if we could get togheter the next day after that, cause he wanted to see me... The next day he REALLY disappear... i didnt got any msgs from him at all!... Next day after that I wrote to him... and we talked a little bit like nothing happened... but i kind of sense him a little distant... Today he wrote, but it was even more distant with me.... I'm really disoriented.... this is about the second time something like this happened to me, without any explanation!.. I mean i can recognize when i behave in someway that could push a guy away... But this two times im telling you, I cant seem to figure out a reason..... I really liked this guy.... I guess i need to get over him... But still im really concerned that this situation repeats itself again, as it did!... Can Someone help me out to figure out WHAT HAPPENED with this guy??.. And maybe a way to avoid this happening again!... I've had a load of time single... im getting pretty tired of it!.. Thanks! Ori !
boogieboy Posted March 24, 2010 Posted March 24, 2010 Either he met someone else that hes more interested in, or you said something in your texts messages to turn him off. Next time use the phone. And we cant tell you where you went wrong without a transcript of the messages. You could have been nagging him and leaving that out for all we know.
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