confused_pjl Posted March 24, 2010 Posted March 24, 2010 So today marks the 6th week of No Contact. I haven't heard from my ex or seen her or her with her new man. Its been tough. I find myself thinking about her a lot lately. Memories that we shared together and things that she used to do. Then I end up thinking about her sharing those memories or doing those things with this new guy and I start getting depressed. I think I am getting into the anger stage. When I get upset I want to yell and smash stuff. I had a really good day today until a friend of mine called me and told me he saw my ex and her new boyfriend looking at rings in the jewelry store, WTF! Its only been 2 months that we've been broken up, could this really be happening or am I assuming too much? The more time goes on the more I think she left me because of security (money). I had a really good job and paid for EVERYTHING. This girl never had to lift a nickel. I lost my job 7 months ago and have been struggling finding work. Coincidentally she left me when she had to start helping out with bills and when I couldn't spoil her like I used to. Now this new guy has a decent job, his own place, his own car and I'm sure he is paying for everything. Which just goes to show how shallow of a person she is. There is still a big part of me that misses her, well, who she was anyways. I still have love for her and am still having a hard time accepting that she did this to me. I don't think I will ever understand how people can jump from one relationship right into another one. I can't even go on dates with girls right now without thinking about my ex or feeling like I'm doing something wrong.
GrayClouds Posted March 24, 2010 Posted March 24, 2010 So today marks the 6th week of No Contact. I haven't heard from my ex or seen her or her with her new man. Its been tough. I find myself thinking about her a lot lately. Memories that we shared together and things that she used to do. Then I end up thinking about her sharing those memories or doing those things with this new guy and I start getting depressed. I think I am getting into the anger stage. When I get upset I want to yell and smash stuff. I had a really good day today until a friend of mine called me and told me he saw my ex and her new boyfriend looking at rings in the jewelry store, WTF! Its only been 2 months that we've been broken up, could this really be happening or am I assuming too much? The more time goes on the more I think she left me because of security (money). I had a really good job and paid for EVERYTHING. This girl never had to lift a nickel. I lost my job 7 months ago and have been struggling finding work. Coincidentally she left me when she had to start helping out with bills and when I couldn't spoil her like I used to. Now this new guy has a decent job, his own place, his own car and I'm sure he is paying for everything. Which just goes to show how shallow of a person she is. There is still a big part of me that misses her, well, who she was anyways. I still have love for her and am still having a hard time accepting that she did this to me. I don't think I will ever understand how people can jump from one relationship right into another one. I can't even go on dates with girls right now without thinking about my ex or feeling like I'm doing something wrong. It should give you confidence that this chick was not meant for you. And good luck to the new guy, lets hope life does not give him a kick in the ass or she will move on to someone else. Be proud of yourself, 6 week of NC and it is working. You were having a pretty good day (and friends like that... why the hell does he run and tell you this crap:mad:) and more good day will come. And at some point so will a quality girl.
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