ConflictedGuy27 Posted March 26, 2010 Posted March 26, 2010 (edited) We should def join forces. My goal is to really enjoy the summer and just keep up the momentum. I'm also planning short trips out of town...keeping my options open: I agree. I'm working on mine later tonight. I'll post up anything new I come up with. Oh, another thing if u want to keep/get the momentum going, share your list with your friends that you do stuff with. Maybe they'll want to join in or add to yours or make their own. Edited March 26, 2010 by ConflictedGuy27
Author SilkRose Posted March 28, 2010 Author Posted March 28, 2010 Poetry readings, cultural events. I enjoy these things anyway. I haven't actually had fun for so long, have been so busy and heartbroken, I have to actually start going out soon. Have been invites to some parties, so I'm going to start saying yes. So we can add Parties to the list too.
Author SilkRose Posted March 28, 2010 Author Posted March 28, 2010 Beaches? Am going on some trips away from where I live so I'll def go to some beaches and try out some sports, great way to meet guys too I think.
SomewhatExperienced Posted March 29, 2010 Posted March 29, 2010 In continuation of my last post about interest/sports clubs, you're also more likely to meet people who actually have interests there. I've met a lot of girls, who's main recreation is going out to bars/clubs and that's their life. There's a lot of people out there who aren't interested or passionate about anything of any sort of significance. All they do is work and party. For me, I don't care if a girl is into painting, mathematics, interpretive dance or saving the environment as long as there is something that inspires them in their life. People who have it in them to join these groups usually have those things that do it for them. People you meet sunbathing on the beach or at a party are less likely, per capita, to have those traits IME.
spiderowl Posted March 29, 2010 Posted March 29, 2010 Well, the places I've seen the most guys (don't know if they are single) have been in music stores (HMV and the like), gigs, and petrol stations. None of these are the best places to strike up conversations, but I guess HMV is better than a petrol station.
Author SilkRose Posted March 30, 2010 Author Posted March 30, 2010 Well, the places I've seen the most guys (don't know if they are single) have been in music stores (HMV and the like), gigs, and petrol stations. None of these are the best places to strike up conversations, but I guess HMV is better than a petrol station. lol. HMV or petrol stations, what a big decision Gigs are ok, depends on how loud/busy they are.
Author SilkRose Posted April 1, 2010 Author Posted April 1, 2010 Am adding Salsa and Samba classes at nightclubs, then I can have a great time and meet men who can dance.
Ilovehim Posted April 1, 2010 Posted April 1, 2010 I would suggest meeting new friends from other friends...also not putting pressure on yourself to "meet someone"...I would just suggest putting yourself out there as in hang out with people you trust and have a good time with...i never met anyone at a club or a bar...i met my boyfriend at work and i met my ex through my friend...of course school is a good place to meet people though ironically never met anyone i was interested in at my college...again i wouldnt put this pressure on myself about meeting that one guy...simply try to look your best, be at your best behavior and do things you enjoy...
Engadget Posted April 2, 2010 Posted April 2, 2010 I've wondered the same thing but for women. I hate hate hate meeting women at bars. I want to meet a smart, confident woman. Not the type that goes to bars, gets wasted and that sort of thing. I like to go to Barnes and Noble and other book/music stores and check out the ladies, and I'm an interesting and attractive man. So maybe that helps. I'd say go to places with hobbies you may like. If you're into cooking, go to a chef's store, etc.
USMCHokie Posted April 2, 2010 Posted April 2, 2010 I would suggest meeting new friends from other friends... +1,000,000. I feel that social networking is the number one way to meet new people. Friends of friends of friends...going out with friends is the easiest and least awkward way of placing yourself in situations to meet new women (or men)...you have an avenue of introducing yourself, and if things don't go well, you have your friends to fall back on... I met the girl I'm currently seeing through a friend of a friend at a house party a couple weeks ago.
Don'tWannabeAWannabe Posted April 2, 2010 Posted April 2, 2010 The main lobbies of pharmaceutical corporate research centers.
Author SilkRose Posted April 11, 2010 Author Posted April 11, 2010 Thanks for all your suggestions, I can't wait to try them out this summer! Keep em comin.
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