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Whats going on?

How do you make your boyfriend more romantic? :D

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stop doing things for him, and kinda become a bit distant, dont call him- wait til he calls..all of a sudden hes gonna be sweet again and more romantic...thats only a temp way to change it...give it a shot! guys like a Challenge

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I dont know. I am not a big fan of playing games to invoke someones behavior. If you want him to be more romantic perhaps you should do something first. You set up something for the two of you thats really romantic. Perhaps he will like it and follow your lead. If not try the oh so dreaded word, oh dare I say it,......communication. Yes, just plain out tell him you really like when this or this, tell him what you like. If he is into you then I think he will try to make you happy.

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Originally posted by calithin83

stop doing things for him, and kinda become a bit distant, dont call him- wait til he calls..all of a sudden hes gonna be sweet again and more romantic...thats only a temp way to change it...give it a shot! guys like a Challenge

No, girls like a challenge. Guys like what they can get. It's advice like this that makes people say "Games are bad, and you should never play them."

 

Goatsbreath is right, games shouldn't be played to invoke behavior. Games are applicable to situations in which both people desire to play. Goat's also right about communication.

 

I'd much rather be romantic to a woman who has communicated her desire for romanticism than to a woman who decides to all of the sudden become aloof.

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