LoveLace Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 Well 1st here's a background - know this guy through mutual friends. Run into each other once or twice a month and we always flirt and we text here and there. But he goes from heavy flirting to very shy overnight, so I figured he wants to make a bigger move sometime then he will. That or maybe he's very stuck on himself, I wasn't sure which. Despite of that he's a very nice and funny guy with good looks and smart - 30 so in my age range. Anyway he was texting me a lot late last night and kept saying he would call me even though I told him I was trying to get to bed...then he did call on his way home and while talking, I suddenly heard a bad noise and he screamed. It sounded like a bad accident and I lost the call. So of course I was freaking out major, and luckily he called back alive and said he was in an accident and he'd been lost so he wasn't sure where he was. I was on the phone with him all through the night trying to help him figure out where he was so he could give directions to his dad to pick him up. The car was stuck in a ditch; he didn't crash into a car but into something on the side of the road - he was driving and trying to do 3 things at once I think. Anyway he kept apologizing and was openly embarrassed, etc. It was sure a side I've never seen of him before. He even said he wanted to cry...he had minor injuries I think. Once he got his ride home, he kept calling and texting to say thanks for your concern and how much he appreciated my help. At one point he said "I'll need some love after this so I will call you soon"...that was a couple hours later I guess after he calmed down more. So now I feel like we connected hugely, not in the best of situations obviously, but I can't wait to see him and hug him because I'm so glad he's okay! He did keep saying he would call me soon; today I haven't texted or anything to see how he's doing because I'm sure he's got a lot to figure out right now. But I want him to know I'll be happy to give him that "love" he talked about, lol. I'm partly afraid he's going to shy up again but I'm hoping not. I'm also not sure if this sudden huge attraction I feel is temporary because of the accident, or if it's just because we really found a stronger connection when we had to work together in a panic situation...I'm also not sure how long I should wait before seeing how he's doing...since he was so emabarrased, I don't want to come off as turned off. And, will he turn shy again once this all blows over and we'll just go back to being buddies? Which is fine...I just hope that what I feel is real...
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