Drummergirl_23 Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 Hello again. I figured I'd update everyone about my situation. To recap, my gf of 2 1/2 years stated she wanted a "break" a few weeks ago (I am a lesbian). She still maintains that she eventually wants to work things out but no matter how much I've tried to change my attitude with her she continues to act like she hates me. Her attitude toward me has gotten worse yet she still contacts me, responds mostly to my texts, answers my calls, etc. I've been getting back into working out, and recently reunited with one of my best friends and we've been having a blast going out an having fun (she is also going through a break-up). I still text my ex everyday but actually, I'm starting not to hurt as much anymore. It still sucks really bad but I know I can't wait around for someone to figure out that they want me. I recently met someone new and she is awesome! We've hung out a couple times and she is a musician like me so it's been really great getting to know her. I can tell she's interested in me and even though I'm not NEAR being ready to start anything new up, it feels good to know that someone stills finds you attractive and wants to hang out with you after the person you love rejects you. I know I still have a long way to go and I know that deep down I'm still hoping my ex and I can work things out, but my point is that everyone going through something similar should stay positive. Meet new people and boost your confidence. Just because one person has lost sight of your great qualities and all the things you bring to the table doesn't mean those qualities are not still there and are not attractive to MANY other people out there. Just my two cents.
ADF Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 Unfortunately, when one partner asks for a "break," is is nearly always a prelude to the big break up. Anyway, you sound like you're handling it as well as can be expected. Good luck.
HLP234 Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 Don't hold any hope for anything. My ex did the same thing and I was dumb and just took it all, then they left me with not even goodbye. At least now you have someone else to occupy your time with. Don't reply to her or text her, unless she says she really wants to work things out with you. If she asks why, tell her it was her choice and you have to do what you can to help yourself get over it because you have been hurt.
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