Thebob Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 So I had this fling with this girl over Spring Break, we met on the beach and kicked it off straight from there. Crashed at her hotel for a few nights (sex was included) and I told her before she left that this was only a spring break without intentions for anything further. She lives a few states away from me so I know it won't ever work. She complied and totally agreed with me and that were here to just have fun. Well ever since she left 2 weeks ago, she has contacted me every day since then, bringing up how she misses me, I gave her the best week of her life, and what I did in the bedroom has never happened to her before. I told her that I am coming back to my homestate in a few weeks to visit and that her and her friend are welcomed to visit, and she says that she really wants to. Also she stated that she wants to come back down to where I live and hang out. Anyone have any ideas what she is thinking? is she thinking of bf/gf type stuff? cause if that's the case then idk what to think. She always brings up the sexual encounters that we did within our texts everyday as well, so what is she thinking everyone? Thebob
boogieboy Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 When she starts thinking of bf/gf stuff, she will say it. Dont read into "hanging out" and get your hopes up. Just let nature take its course.
Author Thebob Posted March 22, 2010 Author Posted March 22, 2010 ha yea, for sure. I know, I just wanted other peoples inputs cause I'm never bringing up bf/gf with her. If it doesn't happen, I won't be hurt because I laid down the rules from the get-go in which she complied. Maybe I just had a huge impact on her life..... lol I have no idea Thebob
St. Nick Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 Contacted you every day since then? Just texts or phone calls? How long do you communicate with her? Give me more details on that and I might be able to tell if she's looking at bf/gf stuff.
Author Thebob Posted March 22, 2010 Author Posted March 22, 2010 Like since the last 2 weeks, it will be on and off from 2pm till midnight, then normally she'll end up sayin shes tired and goin to bed and I'll ttyl! And I've gotten a couple drunk calls when she is at the bar or just got home. Normally our convos are about our spring break sexual encounters and how she wishes I was there with her, and that she's jealous that her roommate is with a guy. They've slowed down kinda the past 2 days, such as she'll message me on fbook, then text me late at night around 10-12 just to see what I am up to. I mean why should she care what I am up to when I'm several states away? idk im starting to think she is thinking bf/gf but im not 100% sure. Ive only initiated 3 convos and the rest have been from her in the past 2 weeks. She is a great girl from what I know of her, and I had one hell of a time with her. She is beautiful and she has been telling me how her friend and her wanted to come up to me and my buddy and talk when they first met us. idk man. I'm just playing the cool roll right now by not caring and not initiating because that turns girls off if you initiate to much. Girls can lose interest super quickly when guys do that. Thebob
St. Nick Posted March 23, 2010 Posted March 23, 2010 Like since the last 2 weeks, it will be on and off from 2pm till midnight, then normally she'll end up sayin shes tired and goin to bed and I'll ttyl! And I've gotten a couple drunk calls when she is at the bar or just got home. Normally our convos are about our spring break sexual encounters and how she wishes I was there with her, and that she's jealous that her roommate is with a guy. They've slowed down kinda the past 2 days, such as she'll message me on fbook, then text me late at night around 10-12 just to see what I am up to. I mean why should she care what I am up to when I'm several states away? idk im starting to think she is thinking bf/gf but im not 100% sure. Ive only initiated 3 convos and the rest have been from her in the past 2 weeks. She is a great girl from what I know of her, and I had one hell of a time with her. She is beautiful and she has been telling me how her friend and her wanted to come up to me and my buddy and talk when they first met us. idk man. I'm just playing the cool roll right now by not caring and not initiating because that turns girls off if you initiate to much. Girls can lose interest super quickly when guys do that. Thebob Wait, she wants her friends to come over with her and meet you and your buddy? If that's the case then she's definitely thinking bf/gf. You probably know this already but I'll say it anyway: when a chick wants her friends to meet you then she's definitely thinking about you as bf material. She wants friends advice on whether she should go for it or not. Why else get her friends involved? I say she's definitely looking for a boyfriend: she's constantly contacting you and wants her friends to meet you? Yup. She wants you for a bf. Just keep playing it cool, player. Don't initiate ****. If she wants to come over then let her come over, but try to get her friends to stay home. They might cockblock you (or did you already meet em?).
Author Thebob Posted March 23, 2010 Author Posted March 23, 2010 Nah what happened on spring break, she was with her friend. Her friend got with my friend and I got with her. She wants to come up with that friend because her friend and my friend are pretty much dating now. I come back in 1.5 months and i told her the dates that im coming back, and she really is excited to come see me. So it's not all her friends just the one that I met over spring break. Thebob
St. Nick Posted March 23, 2010 Posted March 23, 2010 Ok then. However, I still say she wants to be bf/gf. Contacting you that much seems like she's real interested.
txsilkysmoothe Posted March 23, 2010 Posted March 23, 2010 Unless I read wrong, you told her it was just a "spring break" thing? And yet you have continued to communicate with her and make future plans? The latter erases the former, so she could definitely be interested in more and think you are open to the possibility. Are you?
ashleigh422 Posted March 23, 2010 Posted March 23, 2010 I kinda agree with the fact that if she is trying to get you to meet her friends, she is thinking bf material.. Then again.. maybe she just wants to have a threesome:eek:
Author Thebob Posted March 23, 2010 Author Posted March 23, 2010 haha no, I met one of her friends who got with my buddy who I was with during spring break, that is the friend that she is going to bring up because me and my buddy live in the same area when I am back home. So i'm not meeting her friends, she is just bringing one that would come anyways. See I'm not quite sure if I would do bf/gf when were so far apart, I mean I think this girl is really cool and nice and beautiful, but the distance just makes it 10X harder. If she brings it up, I'll think about it, but if she doesn't then it's not a big deal. Thebob
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