crazydancer23 Posted January 12, 2004 Posted January 12, 2004 My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and 7 months now. I dont know why, but I have a jealousy issue with him. He has graduated and I am still in high school, I get to see him on the weekends, but thats it. I stay the night at his house on friday and sat, but those are the only two days we get to see each other. I just get upset when he talks about other girls, or when he goes somewhere all I think about is him with other girls. He hasnt ever cheated on me or given me reason to believe that he would. So, what can I do to get over the jealousy issuse?? Thanks
ncguy34 Posted January 12, 2004 Posted January 12, 2004 This not abnormal at all since he is off at college. We all have jealousy issues but I would not obsess in fact that will turn him away and make him feel like you are being clingy. Whenever the jealousy thoughts hit you or actually before scream stop in your head. I have discussed this before and it is called a stop thought process. Relax and you will do fine.
AprilFool Posted January 12, 2004 Posted January 12, 2004 You are just wishing that you could spend all the time with him that those other girls do..it's normal.
Sweetlady Posted January 13, 2004 Posted January 13, 2004 I kindof understand your problem. I am the same way also. sometimes you cant control your jealousy but, if he has been faithful to you all this time I believe he still is. If you continue to pressure him about it, he will begin to think that you dont trust him. Trust is the number one thing in a relationship. Just think about how good he treats you and it will take your mind off of the negative things. Most boys wouldnt even be thinking about you if you were still in school. It's good that he cares about you.
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