marsle85 Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 Again, there is a BIG difference between seeking advice and seeking outward approval from strangers. Yes, I see. I partial to think though, there are many threads on here seeking the same affirmation, though guised in something completely different.
bananaboat11 Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 Honestly, I don't think I'm hot. In fact, I'm not, but apparently I'm super attractive... I don't believe I am... but I am confident in other areas of my life. Confident enough without the arrogance that I attract women. It just so happens that most of the women I've befriended are very attractive... and have had crushes on me at one point... but, I'm a silly boy who is oblivious to 'signs' and 'subtle hints'... Oh well. I just keep learning! Be confident with you and the rest will follow. One of the biggest lessons I've learned.
thegreatesthumphrey Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 You are average looking or just right above average..... there is no reason you should have women rejecting you. What is probably making you unattractive is your low self confidence. That is usually a turn off for women. That matched with your shyness is not a successful combination. You dont need to work on your looks, just your attitude because both play a prominent role in attractiveness.
PJKino Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 I see no problem with him asking,wheter people want to admit it or not being attractive is as important a factor in mating as anything else Of course you need more then just good looks to be attractive but if you dont have that u cant get your foot in the door..
CLC2008 Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 There is nothing wrong with external validation from time to time and I don't see the op starting numerous threads asking for validation on his looks alone. Certain traits get you in the door and the other traits compliment you as a whole and as a couple. Ya know?
txsilkysmoothe Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 OP, I think you are quite handsome. Shake off the shyness.
PJKino Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 Op should have no problem getting women get out there and get it going..You could have my ugly mug and have women ignore you completely..
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