Lakeside_runner Posted March 21, 2010 Posted March 21, 2010 Yeah, I did the whole hotornot.com thing - but I don't think it's objective in any ways... I know it's a very shallow questions but... so? Any thoughts how to answer it?
Johnny M Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 Is this a serious question? How can you not know something like that? When you're at a club or just walking down a busy street, do you get checked out by girls? Do girls ever tell you that you look hot? If the answer is no, then you are probably average or below average (unless of course you are painfully shy and avoid all interaction with girls). If you are truly clueless, you could post your pics here and I would give you my honest opinion.
Hot Carl Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 You'll never know. Even if you could get an affirmative from a bunch of strangers here, you'll feel like you're back at square one every time you meet a woman you find attractive. Groom yourself, keep fit, take care of your clothes, house and car, and then remember that all that is about 20% of what matters to a woman. Well, a good one anyway.
Author Lakeside_runner Posted March 22, 2010 Author Posted March 22, 2010 Is this a serious question? How can you not know something like that? When you're at a club or just walking down a busy street, do you get checked out by girls? Do girls ever tell you that you look hot? If the answer is no, then you are probably average or below average (unless of course you are painfully shy and avoid all interaction with girls). If you are truly clueless, you could post your pics here and I would give you my honest opinion. Yeah, they look at me but how do I know that they're not just returning my look... I mean it's natural that if you check someone out they'll do the same, right? As far as interaction with girls goes - yes, I am PAINFULLY shy... working on it though
Author Lakeside_runner Posted March 22, 2010 Author Posted March 22, 2010 Let me see you. Just really quick http://www.hotornot.com/m/r/?emid=E8EYOUH
threebyfate Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 Lakeside, just throw up a private album and then add members to your contact list, who you want to view the album. If you want another opinion, I'm willing to give you one.
Hot Carl Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 Just really quick http://www.hotornot.com/m/r/?emid=E8EYOUH Holy smokes! I'm not gay, but I've never been so tempted.
Author Lakeside_runner Posted March 22, 2010 Author Posted March 22, 2010 Lakeside, just throw up a private album and then add members to your contact list, who you want to view the album. If you want another opinion, I'm willing to give you one. How do I add people to the list enabling them to see the album?
threebyfate Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 How do I add people to the list enabling them to see the album? In your user profile under "Networking", there's a link called "Contacts". Click on that link and it will be self-explanatory after that.
Author Lakeside_runner Posted March 22, 2010 Author Posted March 22, 2010 Yes, you are attractive. Thanks. I'm sooo sure this thread will get deleted tomorrow...
TouchedByViolet Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 Just really quick http://www.hotornot.com/m/r/?emid=E8EYOUH It is great when people post a pic of themselves! I think your looks are above average. You seem to have the face and build that cleans up real nice. Not sure how fashionable you are but with the right clothes i think you could turn some heads and get dirty looks
Author Lakeside_runner Posted March 22, 2010 Author Posted March 22, 2010 It is great when people post a pic of themselves! I think your looks are above average. You seem to have the face and build that cleans up real nice. Not sure how fashionable you are but with the right clothes i think you could turn some heads and get dirty looks I usually dress way better than that. It was just a quick iCam shot... Thanks
marsle85 Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 Soo, when am I coming to LA? Just kidding. You're just fine.
threebyfate Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 Hmmm...so you're cute, into fitness and if I recall reading this, a mathematician. Okay, LS single ladies...are you paying attention?
Author Lakeside_runner Posted March 22, 2010 Author Posted March 22, 2010 Soo, when am I coming to LA? Just kidding. You're just fine. Thanks . Thanks you guys - now I'll work more on my confidence skills.
Author Lakeside_runner Posted March 22, 2010 Author Posted March 22, 2010 Hmmm...so you're cute, into fitness and if I recall reading this, a mathematician. Okay, LS single ladies...are you paying attention? All true... eh, ran 14 miles today and biked 25 on top of it
Johnny M Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 Just really quick http://www.hotornot.com/m/r/?emid=E8EYOUH If you've read enough of my posts on this broad, you would know I'm not exactly the kind of person who is afraid of hurting other people's feelings with an honest opinion. Having said that, you are an attractive guy (definitely above average), so don't sweat your looks. Whatever problems you are having with women are due shyness and a lack of confidence, not your appearance. However, if you want to further increase you sex appeal, I would suggest the following: 1) Start lifting weights to put on a little muscle (but don't overdo it - being a beefcake is not a good thing either, unless you're trying to appeal to gay men) 2) Find a clothing style that compliments your physique. Since you appear to be tall and skinny, you should go with a 'European' look.
mrkleen Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 Thanks . Thanks you guys - now I'll work more on my confidence skills. Sorry man, but if you need to reassurance of a bunch of strangers on a message board to instill a reasonable level of self esteem - you have some serious confidence problems.
Author Lakeside_runner Posted March 22, 2010 Author Posted March 22, 2010 2) Find a clothing style that compliments your physique. Since you appear to be tall and skinny, you should go with a 'European' look. Well, lucky for me I am European - born and raised no problem with that...
Author Lakeside_runner Posted March 22, 2010 Author Posted March 22, 2010 Sorry man, but if you need reassurance of a bunch of strangers on a message board to instill a reasonable level of self esteem - you have some serious confidence problems. Oh, that I know... working on it though, making slow progress...
marsle85 Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 2) Find a clothing style that compliments your physique. Since you appear to be tall and skinny, you should go with a 'European' look. Good advice, Johnny. Though I think confidence would look the best on you.
SoleMate Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 You've got the raw material to be very attractive. Shapeless faded T-shirts do not bring out your best. Crisp stylish clothes, smiles, being nice but not a doormat, self-confidence are in order..... Your physical attributes will definitely NOT prevent you from finding a female.
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