2sunny Posted March 23, 2010 Posted March 23, 2010 well i am proud of you for speaking your truth to him. his response shows he doesn't play nice or fair. that's not a good sign for a healthy relationship. keep your eyes open and don't short change yourself just to be with someone. the guidelines should be that he treats you with kindness, respect and decency. if he's not willing to follow such simple rules - i'd tell him to kiss off. you weren't asking for much - you should never expect a personal attack just because he feels defensive for HIS bad behavior and the fact that you noticed it seemed like bad behavior. you were pointing out his behavior - and he made it all about you. that is backwards. he got defensive because he knew he was wrong and got caught. i'm left wondering if he is even worth any more effort.
aerogurl87 Posted March 23, 2010 Posted March 23, 2010 Well Jessa when a guy starts highlighting your character flaws in a fight, I take that to be a bad sign (and this is from personal experience). Like 2sunny said, keep your eyes open for this one because pointing out flaws (coupled with taking forever to recognize the other party's point of view) can sometimes open the floodgates to being with the partner from hell.
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